Strap-ons are a versatile tool in the world of sexual pleasure and are used by people of all genders and orientations. They open up possibilities for penetrative sex where it might not be possible or desired with a biological penis, or to explore different types of penetration such as pegging. Understanding the different types of strap-ons can help you find the best fit for your needs.
1. Harness Strap-Ons
These are the most common type. They consist of a harness that’s worn around the hips and thighs, and a dildo that’s attached to the harness. There are several types of harnesses to choose from:
- Two-Strap Harnesses: These harnesses have one strap that goes around the wearer’s waist and another that goes between the legs. They offer a lot of stability and are generally very adjustable.
- Thong-Style Harnesses: These harnesses have a single strap that goes around the waist and between the legs, similar to a thong. Some people find them more comfortable and easier to wear than two-strap harnesses.
- Underwear-Style Harnesses: These harnesses look like regular underwear or briefs, but with an O-ring to attach a dildo. They’re very comfortable and easy to wear, but they offer less stability than other types.
2. Strapless Strap-Ons
Strapless strap-ons are dildos that are designed to be worn without a harness. One end of the dildo is inserted into the vagina (or anus, depending on the body) and held in place by the pelvic muscles, while the other end can be used for penetration. These toys can offer more skin-to-skin contact and intimacy than harness strap-ons, but they require strong pelvic muscles to hold in place.
3. Hollow Strap-Ons
Hollow strap-ons are designed to be worn over the penis. They can be used by men who have erectile dysfunction or who want to extend the length or girth of their penis. They can also be worn by women or trans men who want to simulate a penis.
4. Double Penetration Strap-Ons
These strap-ons have two dildos attached to them, allowing for simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration. They can be used for double penetration on a single partner, or for penetrating two partners at the same time.
Choosing and Using a Strap-On
When choosing a strap-on, consider what you’ll be using it for, who’ll be wearing it, and what type of stimulation you and your partner enjoy. The size, shape, and material of the dildo are all important factors.
Before using a strap-on, make sure to apply plenty of lube to the dildo and the receiving partner. Start slow and gradually increase the speed and intensity as you and your partner get comfortable.
It’s also crucial to maintain good communication with your partner during strap-on play. Always make sure to get consent and check in regularly to make sure everyone is comfortable and enjoying themselves.
Cleaning your strap-on is also important. The dildo should be cleaned with warm water and mild soap, or a sex toy cleaner, after each use. If the harness is made of a washable material, it should also be cleaned regularly.
Strap-ons offer a unique and exciting way to explore sexual pleasure. With so many options to choose from, you’re sure to find a strap-on that’s perfect for you and your partner.
