XtoysLoving Joy 18 Inch Double Ended Dildo Review: Big and Shared
Editor's opinion
This is a full 18-inch, double-ended TPE dildo with a usable tip at each end, aimed at couples who want to share and confident users who enjoy a longer toy. The length and 14 cm circumference put it firmly beyond beginner territory, and the porous TPE demands careful cleaning and water-based lubricant only.
The Loving Joy 18 Inch Double Ended Dildo sets out to do one specific thing: give two people a working end each, or give a solo user a long, flexible shaft to position freely. At 45.5 cm it is one of the longer toys in its category, and that length is the whole point rather than an afterthought.
What a buyer really needs to weigh here is scale and material. Eighteen inches with a 14 cm circumference is a lot of toy, and TPE is a budget-friendly but porous material with its own care rules. Both of those facts shape who this suits and how much upkeep it asks for.
The good and the bad
What works
- A working tip at each end for genuine shared play between two partners
- Very long at 45.5 cm, so only part need be used and positioning is flexible
- Flexible clear TPE bends with movement rather than staying rigid
- No batteries or charging to think about
What to be aware of
- At 14 cm circumference and 18 inches, far too large to be a first dildo
- Porous TPE cannot be fully sterilised and needs replacing over time
- Restricted to water-based lubricant, as oil and silicone degrade TPE
- Its length makes storage and discreet keeping more of a challenge
Buy it if
Couples who want to share one toy with an end each, and experienced solo users who specifically enjoy a longer, flexible shaft they can position and control themselves.
Skip it if
Beginners or anyone unsure about girth should look elsewhere; a shorter single-ended dildo around 5 to 6 inches in body-safe silicone is a far more sensible starting point.
Design and materials
The body is moulded from TPE with a clear, smooth, see-through finish and a usable tip at both ends. TPE is soft and flexible, so the shaft bends with movement rather than holding a fixed shape, which is helpful across such a long span.
The trade-off is inherent to the material. TPE is porous, meaning it cannot be fully sterilised and will not last indefinitely. It is a budget-friendly choice, but treat it as a toy with a limited lifespan and inspect it over time for any wear.
How it is meant to be used
The double-ended design is the defining feature. Two people can each take an end at once, which is the shared use the toy is built around, or a single user can enjoy double-ended play alone.
The generous length is what makes this flexible: with 45.5 cm to work with, only a portion need ever be used, and the amount is entirely down to the user. That said, 14 cm of circumference is substantial, so plenty of water-based lubricant and an unhurried pace matter more here than with a slimmer toy.
Care and cleaning
Because TPE is porous, cleaning is not optional. Wash with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after every use, and let it dry fully before storing away from dust.
Lubricant choice is fixed: water-based only. Oil and silicone-based products will degrade TPE and shorten the toy's life, so keep any silicone lubricant well away from it. If sharing between partners, a barrier or thorough cleaning between users is sensible given the material cannot be sterilised.
How it compares
Against a body-safe silicone dildo, this concedes on hygiene and longevity, since silicone can be fully sanitised and takes any water-based lubricant with none of the porosity concerns. Where it wins is the specific combination of extreme length and a working end at both sides, which few silicone toys match at this scale.
Within the double-ended category, most alternatives are shorter. If the 18-inch length is the reason you are here, this delivers that; if you simply want a double-ended toy and length is secondary, a shorter TPE or silicone option will be easier to handle and store.
The bottom line
The Loving Joy 18 Inch Double Ended Dildo is a niche toy that does exactly what it promises: a very long, flexible shaft with a usable end each for two. If that is what you want and you are comfortable with real girth plus TPE's care routine, it is a sensible pick. If you are new to this, or you value a material you can fully sterilise, look to a shorter silicone dildo instead.
Frequently asked questions
Is this suitable for a first-time buyer?
Not really. At 18 inches long with a 14 cm circumference, it is a large toy aimed at confident users. Anyone new to dildos would be better served by something shorter and slimmer, ideally in silicone.
What lubricant should I use with it?
Water-based lubricant only. TPE is degraded by oil and silicone-based products, so keeping to water-based options protects the material and extends the toy's life.
Can two people use it at the same time?
Yes. It has a working tip at each end, which is the core purpose of the design, so two partners can each take an end. It can also be used solo for double-ended play.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after use, then allow it to dry fully before storing. Because TPE is porous it cannot be fully sterilised, so thorough cleaning matters and the toy should be replaced over time.
Does it need batteries or charging?
No. This is a manual toy with no power required, so there is nothing to charge or replace.