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Essentials covers everything that makes pleasure products work better, last longer and stay hygienic — from lubricants and intimate washes to batteries, cleaning sprays, condoms and those small extras people often forget to restock. Whether you're new to toys or a seasoned collector, this is the practical, no-fuss corner of the shop that keeps everything running smoothly.

When choosing, think about compatibility first: water-based lubricants suit most toys and are the safest all-rounder, while silicone or oil-based formulas need checking against your toy's material. Consider skin sensitivity too — fragrance-free washes and gentle cleaners are worth it if you're prone to irritation. For batteries, power packs and cleaning sprays, buying a few at once saves faff later.

This category suits absolutely everyone, from first-time buyers wanting the basics sorted to experienced users topping up favourites. A little attention to the right lubricant, cleaner or accessory genuinely improves comfort, hygiene and how long your toys last.

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Common questions

What's the difference between water-based, silicone-based and hybrid lubricants?

Water-based lubricants are versatile, easy to clean and safe with all toy materials, though they may need reapplying. Silicone-based lubricants last longer and feel silkier but shouldn't be used with silicone toys as they can degrade the material over time. Hybrid lubricants blend both for a balance of glide and compatibility, though it's worth checking the label against your specific toy.

Do I need a special cleaner for my toys, or will soap and water do?

Mild soap and water can work for many toys, but dedicated toy cleaners are formulated to be gentle on skin and toy materials while still being effective, especially for textured or porous surfaces. They're a worthwhile addition if you want extra peace of mind and a longer toy lifespan.

Why would I choose an unfragranced intimate wash over a scented one?

Unfragranced washes are generally kinder to sensitive skin and reduce the chance of irritation, as added fragrances can sometimes cause reactions in intimate areas. If you've never had issues with scented products you may not need to switch, but it's a sensible choice if you want to minimise risk.

How do I know what batteries or power accessories my toy needs?

Always check the product description or packaging for the required battery type and size, as this varies between toys. Keeping a small stock of common sizes like AA or AAA on hand is handy, and rechargeable toys will usually specify their own charging accessory.

Are desensitising or warming products like Anal Blu safe to use regularly?

These products are designed for occasional use to enhance comfort or sensation, and it's best to follow the instructions on the packaging rather than using them constantly. If you have any concerns about sensitivity or a medical condition, it's worth checking with a pharmacist or GP first.

What should I look for when choosing condoms within the Essentials range?

Think about material (latex or latex-free for those with allergies), thickness, and whether you want added lubrication or specific textures. It's also worth checking compatibility with any lubricant you're using, as oil-based products can weaken latex condoms.

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