XtoysLoving Joy 20 Function Wand Vibrator Review: A Classic Shape, Rechargeable
Editor's opinion
This is a classic wand vibrator brought up to date with a rechargeable, fully waterproof design and a flexible silicone head. It suits anyone wanting broad, external stimulation with plenty of settings to choose from, and it is easy to charge and clean. The main caveats are its size and its wand-style power, which will feel like a lot to some and just right to others.
The wand is one of the most recognisable shapes in the category, and Loving Joy's take keeps the familiar formula while dropping the mains cable and disposable batteries. What you get is a full-size, broad-tipped vibrator with a flexible head, a rechargeable battery and a waterproof body.
The question for a buyer is not whether a wand works but whether this style suits you. Wands are made for external, all-over use rather than anything precise or internal, and the sheer size and strength that define them can be a selling point or a deterrent depending on what you are after.
The good and the bad
What works
- Rechargeable via USB, so no batteries to buy or replace
- Fully waterproof for bath, shower and easier cleaning
- Flexible head follows contours rather than staying rigid
- Broad tip spreads sensation over a wider area
- 20 patterns and 8 levels give plenty of range to explore
What to be aware of
- At 20cm it is a large, not especially discreet toy to store
- Wand-style power can be too intense for the sensitive
- So many patterns can be fiddly to cycle through mid-session
- Broad head is designed for external use, not internal or precise play
Buy it if
Anyone who wants strong, broad external stimulation and likes the reassurance of a large, easy-to-hold wand. It is a sensible first wand and equally at home for someone who already knows they enjoy the shape.
Skip it if
Those seeking something small and discreet, or anyone after precise, pinpoint or internal stimulation should look at a slimmer, tapered vibrator instead. People sensitive to strong vibration may prefer a gentler, smaller motor.
Design And Materials
The body pairs silicone with ABS plastic, a standard and sensible combination for wands. The silicone head is smooth and non-porous, which is the part that matters most for hygiene and comfort, while the ABS makes up the handle and controls.
The flexible neck is the detail worth noting. Because the broad head can angle rather than staying fixed, it moves with you and takes some of the effort out of positioning a large toy. One practical point: silicone and silicone-based lubricant do not mix, so stick to a water-based lubricant to keep the surface in good condition.
Power And Settings
With 8 vibration levels and 20 patterns, there is a genuinely wide spread here, from steady low hums to shifting rhythms. That range is the appeal, though in practice most people settle on a couple of favourites and rarely use the rest.
One honest trade-off with a menu this large is the button work. Cycling through twenty patterns to get back to a preferred setting can interrupt the moment, so it is worth learning the order early on. As a wand, expect real strength at the top end rather than a subtle buzz.
Size And Handling
At 20cm long with a 13.2cm head circumference, this is a full-size wand and not a bedside-drawer discretion piece. That size is deliberate: the long handle keeps your hand well away from the action and the broad head spreads sensation over a wide area, which many find easier to aim than a slim tip.
The flip side is storage and portability. It takes up room and is not something you would slip into a weekend bag unnoticed, so factor that in if space or privacy is a concern.
Waterproof And Care
Being fully waterproof opens up bath and shower use, and just as usefully it makes cleaning straightforward. Rinse under warm water with a suitable toy cleaner after each use and let it dry completely before storing.
Because it charges over USB rather than sealing around a battery compartment, there is no fiddly cap to worry about. Keep the charging port clean and dry, and the non-porous silicone head will stay easy to maintain over time.
The bottom line
The Loving Joy 20 Function Wand delivers the wand experience most people are looking for: a big, powerful, broad-tipped vibrator that is now rechargeable and fully waterproof. If you want strong external stimulation and do not mind a large toy to store, it is an easy recommendation; if you want something small, precise or gentle, this shape is not the one for you.
Frequently asked questions
Is this a good first wand?
Yes. The broad head is easy to position and the range of settings lets you start gentle and build up, which makes it approachable for a first-time wand user. Just be aware that wands are powerful by design, so begin on a low level.
Can I use it in the bath or shower?
It is described as 100% waterproof, so it is suitable for use in the bath or shower and can be rinsed clean under running water afterwards.
What lubricant should I use with it?
Use a water-based lubricant. The silicone head means silicone-based lubricants should be avoided, as they can degrade the surface over time.
How is it powered?
It is USB rechargeable, so there are no batteries to buy or replace. You simply top it up between sessions using the charging cable.
Is it suitable for internal use?
No. With a broad 13.2cm head circumference this is designed for external, all-over stimulation. For internal play, choose a tapered or insertable vibrator instead.