XtoysLoving Joy 20 Function Wand Vibrator Review: Big Rumble, Fair Price
Editor's opinion
This is a classic full-size wand brought into a rechargeable, waterproof form, aimed at people who like broad external stimulation rather than pinpoint precision. The flexible head and 20 patterns give real range, but at 20cm it is a substantial device that asks for a bit of storage room and two hands rather than discretion.
The wand is one of the most recognisable shapes in the category, and the Loving Joy 20 Function version follows the template closely: a long handle, a broad flexible head and a motor built for depth rather than buzz. The appeal is coverage. Instead of concentrating vibration on one small point, a wand spreads it over a wider area, which many people find easier to enjoy and less intense in a fatiguing way.
What a buyer should weigh here is whether the wand format suits them at all. It is large by design, it is held rather than worn, and the trade-off for that broad, rumbly feel is a device that is neither subtle nor especially portable. If that shape is what you are after, the specification is sensibly put together.
The good and the bad
What works
- Broad flexible head spreads vibration over a wider area, easier for external play
- USB rechargeable, so no batteries to buy or replace
- Fully waterproof for bath or shower use and simple rinsing
- 20 patterns across 8 levels gives genuine range from gentle to firm
- Body-safe silicone head with a steady ABS handle
What to be aware of
- At 20cm it is a large device that needs proper drawer space
- Wand shape is held in the hand, so not discreet or wearable
- Silicone head rules out silicone-based lubricants
- Broad coverage means it is not designed for pinpoint stimulation
Buy it if
People who prefer broad, rumbly external stimulation and want a rechargeable, waterproof wand with plenty of settings to explore. The long handle also helps if reach or grip is a consideration.
Skip it if
Anyone wanting something small, discreet or wearable, or who prefers concentrated pinpoint sensation. A slim bullet or a targeted clitoral toy would serve those buyers better.
Design and materials
The head is body-safe silicone paired with an ABS plastic body, a common and dependable combination. Silicone sits warm and smooth against the skin and is non-porous, while the firmer ABS handle gives a stable grip and keeps the weight manageable at the far end.
The flexible head is the defining feature. It bends to follow the body, so you can adjust angle and pressure rather than holding the whole device rigidly in place. Combined with a 13.2cm head circumference, this is very much a broad-coverage tool rather than a precise one.
How it is meant to be used
This is an external toy for surface stimulation. The sensible approach with any wand is to begin on the lowest setting and step up through the eight levels, using the 20 patterns to vary things from session to session rather than expecting to want all of them every time.
Because the vibration is broad and deep, it tends to suit a build-up rather than instant, localised intensity. The long 20cm handle keeps the head comfortably within reach, which is a practical advantage over shorter toys.
Waterproof and rechargeable
Being fully waterproof, the wand can be used in the bath or shower and rinsed clean without worrying about water ingress. That also makes cleaning straightforward.
Charging is over USB, which removes the ongoing faff of buying and swapping batteries. The trade-off common to all rechargeables is that you need to keep it topped up, so a flat battery mid-session is the thing to plan around rather than a spare set of AAAs.
Care and cleaning
Wash the silicone head with warm water and a mild toy cleaner or soap after each use, and let it dry fully before storing. The non-porous silicone makes this simple and hygienic.
One firm rule: use a water-based lubricant only. Silicone-based lubes can degrade a silicone surface over time, so keep them away from the head. This is worth remembering rather than a genuine drawback, as water-based lube is widely available and works well here.
How it compares
Against a small clitoral toy or bullet, this wand trades discretion and portability for reach, power and broad coverage. It is the opposite design philosophy: less about pinpoint precision, more about a soothing, spread-out feel.
Compared with mains-powered wands, the rechargeable format here means more freedom of movement and easy bath use, at the usual cost of needing to keep it charged. Within its own category it covers the expected bases sensibly, with the flexible head and waterproofing being the features most worth having.
The bottom line
If you already know you like wands, or you want to try the shape in a rechargeable and waterproof form, this Loving Joy model covers the essentials without fuss. Just go in clear-eyed about the size and the fact that a wand is a held, broad-coverage device rather than a discreet or precise one.
Frequently asked questions
Is this suitable for beginners?
It can be, as broad wand stimulation is often gentler and less overwhelming than pinpoint toys. Start on the lowest of the eight levels and work up. The main consideration is size rather than intensity, as it is a full-length device.
Can I use it in the bath or shower?
Yes. It is stated to be 100% waterproof, so it can be used in water and rinsed clean afterwards. Let it dry fully before storing.
What lubricant should I use with it?
Use a water-based lubricant. The head is silicone, and silicone-based lubes can damage silicone surfaces over time, so avoid those.
Does it need batteries?
No. It is USB rechargeable, so there are no batteries to buy. You will need to keep it charged, so top it up before a session to avoid it running flat.
Is it good for pinpoint stimulation?
Not really. With a 13.2cm head circumference it is built for broad, spread-out coverage. If you want concentrated, precise sensation, a slim bullet or targeted clitoral toy would suit you better.