XtoysLoving Joy 6 Inch Silicone Dildo with Suction Cup Review
Editor's opinion
This is a straightforward, well-specified silicone dildo in a size most people can manage. The suction cup and flat base make it genuinely versatile for solo, hands-free and strap-on use, and the main things to weigh are whether the fixed curve suits your anatomy and whether you already own the right lubricant.
The Loving Joy 6 Inch Silicone Dildo with Suction Cup sets out to be an all-rounder rather than a specialist. It combines a moderate size, a curved and ridged tip aimed at internal stimulation, and a suction cup base that doubles as a harness-compatible flat platform.
That combination is the whole appeal, so the questions worth asking are practical ones: is the size right for where you are, does a fixed curve match what you want, and are you set up to care for silicone properly? None of those are dealbreakers, but they decide whether this is the right buy for you.
The good and the bad
What works
- Non-porous silicone body that is simple to keep hygienic
- Suction cup base allows genuine hands-free use on smooth surfaces
- Flat base means it works in an O-ring strap-on harness
- Manageable 13cm insertable length suits newcomers and regulars alike
- No batteries or charging, so it is always ready
What to be aware of
- Fixed curve and ridging will not suit everyone's anatomy or preferences
- Requires water-based lubricant only, as silicone-based lube damages silicone
- Suction cup only holds reliably on smooth, flat surfaces
- Ridged texture may feel too pronounced for those wanting a smooth shaft
Buy it if
People wanting one versatile dildo that covers solo hands-free play, shower use and strap-on wear, in a size that is approachable without being timid.
Skip it if
Anyone chasing a very slim beginner starter or, conversely, a large advanced size should look elsewhere; those who dislike textured tips will prefer a smooth shaft.
Design and materials
The body is moulded silicone, which is the sensible default for an insertable toy: it is non-porous, body-safe and easy to keep clean, unlike cheaper porous materials. The shape pairs a curved, ridged tip with a slimmer mid-section, so the width builds gradually across the 13cm insertable length rather than presenting its fullest point straight away.
The curve is angled for internal stimulation, aimed at the P-spot or G-spot. Because that curve is fixed, it is worth being honest that a shape which lands perfectly for one person may sit at the wrong angle for another. The ridges near the tip add texture, which some will enjoy and others will find more sensation than they want.
How it is meant to be used
The suction cup is the defining feature. On a smooth, flat surface such as a tile, a mirror or the side of a bath, it anchors the toy for hands-free use. On textured or uneven surfaces it will not grip, so its usefulness depends on the surfaces you have available.
The same flat base makes it compatible with an O-ring harness, so it can be worn as a strap-on for pegging or partnered play. That dual role is the real value here: one piece covers solo, hands-free and worn use without extra accessories, which is more flexibility than a plain-based dildo offers.
Care and lubricant
Silicone is low-maintenance but has one firm rule: use a water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lubricants can degrade a silicone surface over time, so if your usual lube is silicone you will need a water-based bottle for this. That is easy to overlook and worth sorting before first use.
Cleaning is simple. Wash with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after use, then dry and store somewhere clean and dry, ideally kept apart from other toys so surfaces do not react with one another.
How it compares
Against a basic flat-based dildo, the suction cup adds hands-free and shower options for little extra complexity, while keeping harness use on the table. Against a vibrating model, this asks nothing of batteries or charging and simply works whenever you reach for it, at the cost of any powered sensation.
Within its own size bracket, 13cm insertable is a genuine middle ground. It is not the slimmest first-timer's choice, nor is it an advanced length, which is exactly why it reads as an all-rounder rather than a specialist.
The bottom line
If you want a single, dependable silicone dildo that handles hands-free play, shower use and strap-on wear in an approachable size, this is a sensible and honest choice. Just check that a fixed curve and a textured tip suit your preferences, and keep a water-based lubricant to hand.
Frequently asked questions
What lubricant should I use with it?
Use a water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lubricants can degrade a silicone toy over time, so avoid them with this piece.
Will the suction cup stick to any surface?
It grips smooth, flat surfaces such as tiles, mirrors or a bath side. It will not hold reliably on textured, porous or uneven surfaces.
Can I use it with a strap-on harness?
Yes. The flat base is compatible with a standard O-ring harness, so it can be worn for pegging or partnered play.
Is this a good size for a beginner?
At 13cm insertable with a tapered mid-section, it is manageable for newcomers while still substantial enough for experienced users. Those wanting something very slim to start with may prefer a narrower option.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after use, dry it, and store it somewhere clean and dry, kept apart from other toys.