XtoysLoving Joy 6 Inch Silicone Strap On Dildo Kit Review
Editor's opinion
This is an all-in-one starter kit that saves couples the guesswork of matching a harness to a dildo. The 6 inch, silicone dildo and adjustable universal harness suit newcomers, though the PVC harness and single fixed dildo mean it is more a first step than a long-term system.
Buying your first strap-on can feel like assembling flat-pack furniture with half the parts missing: a harness here, a dildo there, and a nagging worry that the two will not fit together. The appeal of the Loving Joy 6 Inch Silicone Strap On Dildo Kit is that it removes that problem by bundling a matched dildo and harness in one box.
What a buyer should weigh is whether an all-in-one starter kit is the right shape for them. It leans deliberately towards ease and approachability rather than range or premium finish, and understanding that trade-off is the key to knowing whether this is your kit.
The good and the bad
What works
- Complete kit, so the harness and dildo are guaranteed to fit together
- Silicone dildo is non-porous and easy to keep hygienic for a shared toy
- Modest 6 inch size with 13cm insertable length suits newcomers
- Universal harness adjusts to waists up to 150cm, covering most body shapes
- Bullet pocket lets you add vibration later without buying a new harness
What to be aware of
- Silicone body rules out silicone lubricant, so stick to water-based
- PVC and nylon harness is functional rather than a premium leather or fabric feel
- The dildo is fixed in the kit, so upgrading later means buying separately
- A 13cm circumference is fairly substantial for absolute beginners
Buy it if
Couples exploring strap-on play for the first time who want one straightforward purchase that is guaranteed to work as a set, with room to add a vibrating bullet later.
Skip it if
Anyone wanting a wide choice of interchangeable dildos or a premium harness should look at a system sold with a separate O-ring plate and their own choice of attachments instead.
Design and materials
The dildo is smooth silicone, which is the sensible choice for a shared toy: it is non-porous, so it does not harbour bacteria the way cheaper porous materials can, and it warms with body contact. The one practical consequence is that silicone and silicone lubricant do not mix, so a water-based lubricant is the safe default here.
The harness is PVC with nylon. That keeps the kit affordable and makes it machine washable, but it is honest to say this is a hard-wearing, practical fabric rather than the supple leather or plush fabric of a pricier harness. For a first kit that is a fair trade; for long-term daily use, some buyers eventually want something softer against the skin.
Size and who it suits
At 6 inches overall with a 13cm insertable length, this sits firmly in beginner-to-intermediate territory rather than being an intimidating showpiece. The 13cm circumference, however, is not trivial, so newcomers should not assume the modest length makes it entirely gentle.
The universal harness adjusts to a waist of up to 150cm, which covers a broad range of body shapes and makes it a reasonable choice for couples who want one harness that either partner can wear.
Ways to use it
The two O-rings hold the dildo in the harness for partnered strap-on play, which is the kit's main purpose. The strong suction cup adds genuine flexibility, anchoring to a smooth flat surface for solo, hands-free use, so the dildo earns its keep even when the harness is put away.
The bullet pocket is a thoughtful inclusion, letting you add a compatible vibrating bullet whenever you want extra sensation. Note that a bullet is not part of the kit as described, so that is a small extra purchase to plan for.
Care and cleaning
The silicone dildo should be cleaned with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner after each use, which is quick and, thanks to the non-porous surface, thorough. The harness being machine washable is a real convenience, since fabric harnesses that must be spot-cleaned by hand can become a chore.
Between the two, upkeep is about as low-effort as strap-on kits get, which reinforces its position as a fuss-free starter set.
The bottom line
If you want a single, sensibly priced purchase to try strap-on play together, this Loving Joy kit does exactly what it sets out to do: it matches a beginner-friendly silicone dildo to an adjustable, washable harness with room to add vibration. Just go in knowing the harness is practical rather than luxurious and the dildo is fixed, so committed enthusiasts may outgrow it in time.
Frequently asked questions
Is a vibrating bullet included in the kit?
The harness has a bullet pocket, but based on the stated features a compatible bullet is not part of the kit. You would add one separately if you want the vibration option.
What lubricant should I use with the silicone dildo?
Because the dildo is silicone, avoid silicone-based lubricant, which can degrade the surface over time. A water-based lubricant is the safe and compatible choice.
Will the harness fit different body shapes?
The universal harness is fully adjustable and fits waists up to 150cm, around 59 inches, so it suits a wide range of body shapes and can be worn by either partner.
Can the dildo be used on its own without the harness?
Yes. It has a strong suction cup base that anchors to a smooth, flat surface for hands-free solo use, so it is not limited to strap-on play.
How do I clean the kit?
Clean the silicone dildo with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner after each use. The harness is machine washable, which makes keeping the whole set fresh straightforward.