XtoysLoving Joy 7 Inch Dildo with Balls Clear Review
Editor's opinion
This is a straightforward, realistically shaped dildo with a manageable 3.4 cm girth and a suction cup base that opens up hands-free and harness play. It suits those past the absolute beginner stage who want versatility, but the TPE material asks for careful cleaning and rules out silicone lubricant.
The Loving Joy 7 Inch Dildo with Balls sets out to be an all-rounder: a realistic clear toy that can be held, stuck to a flat surface for hands-free use, or worn in a harness. That triple purpose is where most of its appeal sits.
What a buyer really needs to weigh here is the material and the dimensions. TPE has a lifelike feel but comes with particular care needs, and while a 3.4 cm diameter is far from intimidating, the 14.5 cm insertable length places this a step beyond a first purchase.
The good and the bad
What works
- Suction cup base enables hands-free and shower play on smooth surfaces
- Harness compatible, so it works for solo and partnered use
- Moderate 3.4 cm girth with a tapered head for easier insertion
- Clear, realistic sculpting with defined head and balls
- No batteries or charging to think about
What to be aware of
- TPE is porous and harder to fully sanitise than silicone
- Silicone lubricant will degrade the material, so only water-based works
- At 14.5 cm insertable, not the gentlest choice for a first dildo
- Suction cup only grips genuinely smooth, non-porous surfaces
Buy it if
Those who want one versatile dildo covering hands-free, in-hand and harness play, and who are comfortable with a mid-length, moderate-girth toy.
Skip it if
Complete beginners may prefer something shorter and slimmer, and anyone who wants a toy they can boil clean or use with silicone lube should look at a body-safe silicone dildo instead.
Design And Materials
The toy is moulded from TPE into a transparent, realistic form with a defined head, textured shaft and balls. TPE has a soft, lifelike surface and a moderate weight, which many people prefer over rigid materials for a more natural feel in the hand.
The trade-off is inherent to TPE: it is a porous material, so it cannot be sterilised the way silicone can, and it is sensitive to silicone-based lubricant. That does not make it a poor choice, but it does mean the material dictates how you look after it.
Size And Suitability
With 14.5 cm insertable and a 3.4 cm diameter, this is a mid-length dildo with a fuller-than-slim but far from oversized girth. The tapered head is designed to make insertion more comfortable, which helps across a range of experience levels.
That said, the length is worth taking seriously. Someone buying their very first dildo would likely find a shorter, narrower model more forgiving, whereas anyone who already knows they enjoy this sort of size will find it a comfortable everyday choice.
The Suction Base And Harness Use
The flat suction cup is the toy's most practical feature. It grips smooth, non-porous surfaces such as tiles, glass or a headboard for hands-free use at different angles, which broadens what you can do with a single toy.
The important caveat is that a suction cup needs a genuinely smooth surface to hold; textured walls, painted plaster or grouted tile lines will let it slip. The same base fits most O-ring harnesses, making this a sensible dual-purpose pick for solo and partnered play.
Care And Cleaning
Wash the dildo with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner before and after every use, and dry it thoroughly before storing. Because TPE is porous, it will not sanitise as completely as silicone, so a barrier condom is worth considering if the toy is shared.
Pair it only with a water-based lubricant. Silicone lubricant will gradually break down TPE, and oil-based products are best avoided too. Store it away from other toys, as TPE can react with certain materials over time.
The bottom line
If you want a versatile, realistically shaped dildo that covers hands-free, in-hand and harness use without any batteries to worry about, this Loving Joy model is a sensible, approachable choice. Go in knowing that TPE needs attentive cleaning and water-based lube only, and that the mid length suits confident users more than absolute beginners.
Frequently asked questions
Is this dildo suitable for beginners?
It is approachable rather than beginner-specific. The 3.4 cm girth is moderate and the tapered head aids insertion, but at 14.5 cm insertable it is longer than an ideal first toy. A newcomer might prefer something shorter and slimmer to start.
Can I use it in the shower?
Yes, provided the surface is smooth and non-porous. The suction cup holds well to glass or tiles but will struggle with textured walls or grouted seams, so test the grip before relying on it.
What lubricant should I use with it?
Only water-based lubricant. TPE is degraded by silicone lubricant over time, and oil-based products should also be avoided. Water-based lube is fully compatible and easy to reapply.
Does it work with a strap-on harness?
Yes. The flat suction base is compatible with most O-ring harnesses, so the same toy can be used for hands-free, in-hand and partnered play.
How do I keep it clean and hygienic?
Wash it before and after use with warm water and a toy cleaner, and dry it fully before storage. As TPE is porous and cannot be fully sterilised, using a condom over it is wise if it is shared between partners.