XtoysLoving Joy 7 Inch Dildo with Balls Review: Realistic Mid-Range
Editor's opinion
This is a sensibly sized realistic dildo with a suction cup base, aimed at buyers who want a lifelike shape without extreme proportions. The soft TPE build keeps it comfortable and affordable, but it is a porous-feeling material that needs careful cleaning and water-based lubricant only.
The Loving Joy 7 Inch Dildo with Balls sets out to do a familiar job well: offer a realistic profile, a manageable size and a suction cup base, all at an accessible price. It is not trying to be a premium showpiece, and understanding that is the key to whether it suits you.
What a buyer should weigh here is the trade-off at the heart of TPE toys. You get a soft, lifelike feel and a low cost, but you also take on the upkeep and lubricant restrictions that come with a porous material. The size and shape are approachable; the material is the detail that deserves a second look.
The good and the bad
What works
- Approachable mid-range size at 14.5 cm insertable and 3.4 cm diameter
- Suction cup base allows genuine hands-free use or a firm grip
- Soft, flexible TPE gives a realistic, pliable feel
- No batteries or charging ever required
- Realistic sculpted head, shaft and balls for a natural look
What to be aware of
- TPE is porous-feeling and harder to clean thoroughly than silicone
- Restricted to water-based lubricant only
- Cannot be fully sterilised, so it is best kept to one user
- Suction cup needs a clean, smooth surface to hold reliably
Buy it if
Buyers wanting a lifelike, comfortably sized dildo with hands-free capability, and those happy to look after a TPE toy properly. A reasonable choice for a first realistic dong given its non-extreme dimensions.
Skip it if
Anyone wanting a toy they can share freely or sterilise between users, or who prefers silicone lubricant, should look to a body-safe silicone dildo instead. Those after a larger or girthier realistic size will find this decidedly mid-range.
Design And Feel
The sculpting follows the classic realistic template: a defined head, a shaft and a full set of balls that also act as a base for the suction cup. At 14.5 cm insertable with a 3.4 cm diameter, this sits firmly in mid-range territory, roughly a 11.15 cm circumference, which makes it a sensible pick for someone who wants lifelike without going to extremes.
The TPE body is soft and flexible, so it has give rather than the rigidity of harder materials. That flexibility makes it easy to angle and handle, though it also means it will not be as firm as a solid or dual-density design if maximum stiffness is what you are after.
The Suction Cup Base
The flat suction cup is the feature that widens how this can be used. Pressed firmly against a clean, dry, smooth surface such as tiles, glass or a headboard, it holds the dildo upright for hands-free play, and it doubles as a stable grip when you would rather guide it yourself.
Worth knowing: suction cups only perform on genuinely smooth, non-porous surfaces. Textured walls, painted or uneven finishes and dusty surfaces will not give a dependable hold, so always test that it is secure before you rely on it.
Material And Care
TPE is soft and comfortable, but it is more porous-feeling than silicone, which has practical consequences. It cannot be boiled or fully sterilised, so it is realistically a one-person toy, and it needs washing with warm water and a proper toy cleaner before and after every use, then drying fully before storage to keep it fresh.
Crucially, use a water-based lubricant only. Silicone and oil-based products can degrade TPE over time, so keeping the right lube to hand is part of owning this style of toy.
How It Compares
Against a silicone realistic of similar size, this Loving Joy will typically come in cheaper and feel a touch softer, but silicone wins on cleaning, sterilising and lube compatibility. That is the fundamental choice in this category.
Within the TPE realistic bracket itself, the dimensions here are sensible and the suction cup base adds versatility, which is more than some plainer models at the same tier offer. If you are set on TPE and want hands-free capability, this is a competent, no-nonsense option.
The bottom line
If you want a realistic, comfortably sized dildo with a working suction cup base and you are content to give a TPE toy the care it needs, this is a sound, unfussy choice. Just go in clear-eyed about the material: water-based lube only, thorough cleaning, and best treated as your own.
Frequently asked questions
Can I use silicone lubricant with this dildo?
No. It is made from TPE, and silicone or oil-based lubricants can degrade this type of material over time. Stick to a water-based lubricant only.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash before and after each use with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner, then let it dry fully before storing. Because TPE is porous-feeling and cannot be fully sterilised, it is best kept as a single-user toy.
Is this a good size for a beginner?
At 14.5 cm insertable and 3.4 cm in diameter it is a manageable mid-range size, lifelike without being extreme, which makes it a reasonable first realistic dildo. Plenty of water-based lube and a gentle pace are still sensible.
Will the suction cup stick to any surface?
Only clean, dry, smooth, non-porous surfaces such as tiles, glass or a headboard. Textured or painted surfaces will not give a reliable hold, so always check it is secure before relying on it.
Does it need batteries or charging?
No. It is a non-vibrating dildo, so there is nothing to charge and no batteries to replace.