XtoysLoving Joy 7 Inch Remote Vibrating Dildo Review
Editor's opinion
This is a mid-sized realistic dildo that adds two genuinely useful tricks: a suction cup for hands-free play and a wireless remote so a partner can steer the vibrations. The 14.5 cm insertable length and modest girth make it approachable, but the porous TPE material means it needs diligent care and water-based lubricant only.
The Loving Joy 7 Inch Remote Vibrating Dildo tries to be a jack of a few trades. It has the familiar veined-and-balls shape of a realistic dong, but layers on ten vibration modes, a suction cup base for stick-it-and-forget-it positioning, and a wireless remote that hands control to a partner or saves you reaching down.
The question for a buyer is whether that combination suits how you actually want to use it, and whether the TPE construction is a trade-off you are happy with. A see-through realistic finish and rechargeable power are nice touches, but each of the headline features comes with a practical caveat worth understanding before you buy.
The good and the bad
What works
- Rechargeable, so no batteries to buy or replace
- Wireless remote lets a partner take charge, or spares you reaching down
- Suction cup base enables genuine hands-free use on smooth surfaces
- Approachable size at 14.5 cm insertable and 10.5 cm circumference
- Ten vibration functions covering steady and patterned modes
What to be aware of
- TPE is porous, so it cannot be fully sterilised and needs careful cleaning
- Water-based lubricant only, as other types can degrade the material
- Suction cup only grips smooth, flat surfaces, not fabric or textured walls
- A transparent finish can show wear and residue over time
Buy it if
Buyers who want a realistic-style dildo with a bit more versatility, especially couples who like the idea of one partner controlling the vibrations, and anyone who values hands-free suction cup play on tiles, glass or a headboard.
Skip it if
Those who want a body-safe material they can sterilise should look to a silicone dildo instead. Anyone after a larger, more filling size will find the 3.4 cm diameter modest, and people who only use silicone lubricant will need to switch to water-based here.
Design and materials
The body is moulded TPE with a transparent finish and a realistic shape complete with a shaft and balls. TPE has a soft, flesh-like give that many people prefer to firmer materials, and the see-through look is a novelty some will enjoy.
The important caveat is that TPE is porous. Unlike silicone, it cannot be boiled or fully sterilised, which matters if you plan to share it or want the easiest possible upkeep. It also means water-based lubricant only, since silicone and oil-based products can break down the surface. Treat it as a personal item and clean it thoroughly, and the material serves well enough.
The remote and vibrations
Ten vibration functions give you a spread of steady speeds and patterned modes, which is a reasonable range for a toy at this level. The wireless remote is the standout: because control lives off the toy itself, a partner can change settings from a short distance, or you can adjust things without fumbling.
Do bear in mind that remote-controlled toys depend on staying paired and in range, so keep the remote handy. The vibrations run through a realistic shaft rather than a dedicated clitoral arm, so this is about internal buzz rather than targeted external stimulation.
Suction cup and hands-free use
The flat suction base is the other practical feature. Pressed firmly onto a smooth, non-porous surface such as tiles, glass or a headboard, it holds the dildo in place for hands-free use. Always check the seal before you begin, as a poor stick will let go at the wrong moment.
The limitation is simple: it needs a genuinely smooth, flat surface. Painted or textured walls, wood grain and fabric will not hold it. It is not designed as a harness-compatible base either, so plan around what surfaces you actually have.
Care, charging and comparisons
USB rechargeable power is a real convenience here, sparing you the drawer full of AAAs that battery toys demand. Wash the toy with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after use, dry it completely, and store it away from other toys.
Compared with a plain silicone dildo, this offers vibration, remote control and suction in one, which is a lot of functionality. Compared with a silicone vibrating model, it gives up the easy-clean, sterilisable material. If features matter most to you, this delivers them; if material purity is your priority, silicone is the safer bet.
The bottom line
The Loving Joy 7 Inch Remote Vibrating Dildo packs remote control, ten vibration modes, hands-free suction and rechargeable power into a moderately sized realistic shape, which is good value in features. Just go in clear-eyed about the TPE: it is porous, needs careful cleaning and water-based lubricant only. If those terms suit you, it is a versatile all-rounder, particularly for couples who like the remote play angle.
Frequently asked questions
Can I use any lubricant with this dildo?
No. Because it is made from TPE, you should use only a water-based lubricant. Silicone and oil-based lubricants can damage the material over time.
Is the TPE material safe to share with a partner?
TPE is porous and cannot be fully sterilised, so it is best treated as a personal item. If you want to share it, using a condom over it and cleaning thoroughly are sensible precautions.
What surfaces will the suction cup stick to?
It grips smooth, flat, non-porous surfaces such as tiles, glass, mirrors or a smooth headboard. It will not hold on textured walls, wood grain or fabric, and you should always check the seal before use.
How is it powered?
It is USB rechargeable, so there are no batteries to buy or replace. Charge it fully before first use following the included instructions.
Is this a good size for beginners?
With 14.5 cm insertable and a 3.4 cm diameter, it sits in an approachable mid-range. It is a reasonable choice for those newer to internal toys, while being neither especially small nor particularly large.