XtoysLoving Joy 7.5" Remote Gyrating & Vibrating Dildo Review
Editor's opinion
This is a full-featured silicone dildo that adds a rolling, gyrating motion to standard vibration and puts everything on a wireless remote. It suits people who want lifelike girth plus hands-free, motorised movement, but the 13.5 cm circumference means it is not a first toy for anyone new to this size.
The Loving Joy 7.5" Remote Gyrating & Vibrating Silicone Dildo is trying to do two things at once. Alongside conventional vibration it gyrates, adding a circular, rolling motion, and the two combine across ten functions that you steer from a wireless remote rather than the base itself.
The question for a buyer is whether that extra movement, plus a rechargeable motor and a hands-free suction base, justifies choosing this over a simpler toy. The other thing to weigh before anything else is size: at 16 cm insertable with a 13.5 cm circumference, this is a substantial toy, and that matters more than any feature list.
The good and the bad
What works
- Gyrating plus vibrating motion, not just one or the other
- Wireless remote means you can adjust settings without reaching the base
- Rechargeable, so no hunting for batteries between sessions
- Body-safe silicone that takes a thorough clean
- Suction base allows genuinely hands-free use on smooth surfaces
What to be aware of
- 13.5 cm circumference is a lot of girth for newcomers to this size
- Silicone body rules out silicone lubricant
- A motorised, remote-controlled toy has more parts that can fail than a plain dildo
- Remote-controlled toys can drift out of sync or lose their pairing
Buy it if
People who already enjoy a fuller girth and want motorised gyration and vibration in one silicone toy, with the convenience of a remote and a hands-free base.
Skip it if
Anyone new to insertable toys or unsure about size should start with something slimmer, around 10 to 11 cm circumference, before considering this. If you want something to travel with or keep utterly simple, a non-motorised silicone dildo has less to go wrong.
Movement And Controls
The headline feature is that this does more than buzz. The gyrating action produces a rolling, circular motion, and combined with vibration that gives ten functions to move between. In practice this means more variety than a single-motor toy, which is the main reason to choose it over something simpler.
The wireless remote is a sensible touch, especially given the suction base. When the toy is fixed in place or being used with a partner, being able to change speed and pattern without reaching for the body of the toy is genuinely useful. The trade-off, common to all remote toys, is another component to keep charged and paired, and the possibility of it losing connection at an inconvenient moment.
Silicone And Girth
The body is silicone with a realistic surface, which is the right material choice: it is body-safe, non-porous and easy to keep clean. The one firm rule that follows is that silicone lubricant is off the menu, as it can degrade a silicone surface over time. Stick to a water-based lubricant.
The number that deserves the most attention is the 13.5 cm circumference. That is a meaningful girth, and with 16 cm insertable this is a substantial toy rather than a casual one. Plenty of lubricant and a relaxed, unhurried approach matter here. If you are choosing between sizes and unsure, this is the larger end of the spectrum, not the middle.
Hands-Free Suction Base
The suction base is designed to grip a smooth, flat surface such as tiling, a mirror or a shower wall, holding the toy steady for hands-free play. This is where a heavier, motorised toy earns its keep, since it frees you to enjoy the movement without holding anything.
Worth knowing: suction bases only hold on genuinely smooth, non-porous surfaces. Textured tiles, painted walls or grouted areas will not give a reliable grip, so the quality of the surface matters as much as the base itself.
Charging And Care
The rechargeable motor is a clear advantage over battery-powered rivals: no AAAs in the drawer and no dead cells mid-session. As with any rechargeable toy, keep an eye on charge level before you plan to use it, and remember the remote needs power too.
Cleaning is straightforward thanks to the silicone body. Wash it before and after use with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner or mild soap. Because it houses a motor, treat it as splashproof rather than fully submersible unless the packaging confirms otherwise, and never pair it with silicone lubricant.
How It Compares
Against a plain silicone dildo, this offers motion the simpler toy cannot, at the cost of more to charge, pair and potentially go wrong. Against a single-motor vibrating dildo, the added gyration is the point of difference and the main reason to pick it.
Within the remote-controlled, dual-motion category it covers the expected bases well: rechargeable, body-safe silicone, a hands-free base and a decent spread of functions. The deciding factor for most buyers will not be the features but the girth, which places it firmly among the larger toys in its class.
The bottom line
If you already enjoy a fuller girth and want the variety of both gyrating and vibrating motion with the convenience of a remote and hands-free base, this Loving Joy dildo is a well-specified choice in silicone. Just go in clear-eyed about the 13.5 cm circumference and remember it is a motorised toy with more to maintain than a simple one. Newcomers to this size should build up to it rather than start here.
Frequently asked questions
Is this suitable for beginners?
Not as a first toy. With a 13.5 cm circumference and 16 cm insertable, it is on the larger side. Anyone new to insertable toys would be better starting slimmer and working up to this kind of girth over time.
What lubricant should I use with it?
A water-based lubricant. The silicone body means silicone lubricant should be avoided, as it can damage a silicone surface. Use plenty given the toy's girth.
Can I use it in the shower or bath?
The suction base is designed for smooth surfaces like a shower wall or tiling, so it can be used in the bath or shower. As it contains a motor, treat it as splashproof rather than fully submersible unless the packaging states it is waterproof.
What is the difference between gyrating and vibrating?
Vibration is the familiar buzzing sensation, while gyration is a rolling, circular movement. This toy combines both across ten functions, which is its main advantage over a single-motion toy.
Do I need batteries?
The toy itself is rechargeable, so there are no batteries to replace. Do check whether the wireless remote takes its own battery, and keep both the toy and remote charged before use.