XtoysLoving Joy 7.5" Remote Thrusting & Vibrating Dildo Review
Editor's opinion
This is a motorised silicone dildo that adds a thrusting action to the usual vibration, with ten functions and a handy wireless remote. It suits people who already enjoy a fuller insertable size and want hands-free, powered movement. At a 12.5 cm circumference it is not a beginner's first purchase.
The Loving Joy 7.5" Remote Thrusting & Vibrating Silicone Dildo sets out to do two jobs at once: it moves back and forth like a thruster while also vibrating, and it spreads those combinations across ten functions. A wireless remote handles the switching, and a suction base means you can set it down and leave your hands free.
The question for a buyer is whether the mechanics justify the size. This is a fuller toy with a 12.5 cm circumference, so the appeal depends on wanting girth and depth as much as movement. It is worth weighing how the motorised action and the remote fit the way you actually like to play.
The good and the bad
What works
- Thrusting motion as well as vibration, which is less common in this category
- Wireless remote lets you change settings without reaching down
- Rechargeable, so no batteries to hunt for
- Silicone body, smooth and body-safe
- Suction base allows genuine hands-free use on flat surfaces
What to be aware of
- At 12.5 cm circumference, too much for beginners
- Motorised thrusters tend to be noisier than a simple vibrator
- Silicone restricts you to water-based lubricant only
- A remote adds a second item to keep charged and track
Buy it if
People who already enjoy a fuller insertable size and want powered thrusting plus vibration, particularly anyone who values hands-free, remote-controlled play alone or with a partner.
Skip it if
Newcomers to insertable toys, who would be better served by a slimmer, simpler design first. If discretion and quiet matter most, a non-motorised or purely vibrating toy will run more quietly.
Design and materials
The body is silicone, shaped for a realistic feel, and finished with a suction base. Silicone is the material most people want in an insertable toy: smooth, non-porous and easy to keep clean, provided you treat it correctly.
Because this is a powered toy with a motor for the thrusting action, expect it to be firmer and heavier than a plain silicone dildo. The suction base does double duty, gripping a flat surface for hands-free use or giving you something solid to hold.
How it is meant to be used
The distinctive feature is the thrusting motion, which moves the shaft rather than relying on you to do the work. Combined with vibration across ten functions, that gives a range of rhythms and intensities to move between.
The wireless remote is the practical heart of this. It means you, or a partner, can change settings mid-use without fumbling for a button, which is where a suction-mounted, hands-free toy earns its keep. Do bear in mind that any motorised thruster makes more noise than a simple vibrator, so it is not the most discreet choice.
Size and who it suits
With 16.5 cm insertable and a 12.5 cm circumference, this is squarely a fuller-girth toy. That is the main thing to reason through before buying: the circumference matters far more than the length for comfort, and 12.5 cm is a meaningful amount.
If you already enjoy toys of this size, it should feel familiar. If you are newer to insertable toys, this is not the one to start with; go slowly, use plenty of lubricant, and consider a slimmer design first.
Care and cleaning
Because the body is silicone, use only a water-based lubricant. Silicone lubricant can degrade a silicone surface over time, so that rule is worth taking seriously.
Wash before and after use with warm water and a proper toy cleaner. As a rechargeable, motorised item it will not be fully submersible in the way a solid toy is, so check the instructions and clean around the base and controls with care rather than dunking it.
How it compares
Against a standard vibrating dildo, the added thrusting motion is the reason to choose this: it does something a plain vibrator cannot, and the remote makes it easy to control. That extra machinery is also what makes it larger, firmer and louder than a simple silicone toy.
Compared with other thrusters, the rechargeable power and included wireless remote are sensible, up-to-date choices. If you want the movement but in a gentler size, look for a slimmer thrusting model; if you simply want vibration, a standard silicone vibrator will be quieter and cheaper.
The bottom line
If you already enjoy a fuller size and like the idea of powered thrusting with hands-free, remote-controlled convenience, the Loving Joy 7.5" is a well-specified choice with a body-safe silicone finish. Just go in clear-eyed about the girth and the motor noise, and keep to water-based lubricant to protect the surface.
Frequently asked questions
Is this suitable for beginners?
Not really. At a 12.5 cm circumference it is a fuller-girth toy aimed at people who already enjoy that size. If you are new to insertable toys, a slimmer design would be a more comfortable starting point.
What lubricant should I use?
Use a water-based lubricant only. The silicone body can be damaged by silicone-based lubricant, so stick to water-based, and use plenty of it given the girth.
Does it need batteries?
No. Both the toy and the remote are rechargeable, so there are no batteries to buy or replace.
Can it be used hands-free?
Yes. The suction base grips flat surfaces for hands-free play, and the wireless remote lets you change functions without reaching down.
Is it quiet?
Because it has a motor driving the thrusting action, expect it to be noticeably louder than a simple vibrator. If quietness is a priority, a non-thrusting toy will be more discreet.