XtoysLoving Joy 8 Inch Dildo with Balls Review: Realistic and Versatile
Editor's opinion
This is a straightforward, versatile realistic dildo with a genuinely useful suction base and harness compatibility. The size sits in the middle ground rather than the beginner range, and the TPE material asks for a little more care than silicone. A sensible pick if you want lifelike shape and hands-free options without paying for premium materials.
The Loving Joy 8 Inch Dildo with Balls is aiming for the classic realistic experience: a sculpted shaft, moulded balls and a suction cup base that lets it do double duty by hand, on a surface, or in a harness. It is a familiar formula, and the appeal is in how well the details serve everyday use.
What a buyer should weigh here is size, material and versatility together. At 16.5 cm insertable with a 1.5 inch diameter it is a moderate, confident girth rather than an extreme one, and the choice of TPE over silicone shapes both the price and the care it needs. Those trade-offs are worth understanding before you buy.
The good and the bad
What works
- Strong suction base for hands-free play on smooth surfaces
- Flared base makes it compatible with most harnesses
- Soft TPE with a firmer core for lifelike feel and control
- No batteries or charging to worry about
- Moderate 1.5 inch girth that is substantial but manageable
What to be aware of
- TPE is porous, so it needs careful cleaning and is harder to fully sanitise than silicone
- Requires water-based lubricant only, ruling out silicone lube
- At 16.5 cm insertable it is not a first-timer's size
- Should be stored separately to protect the surface
Buy it if
Anyone who wants a realistic shape with genuine versatility, whether that is solo suction-cup play or sharing with a partner via a harness, and who is comfortable with a moderate size.
Skip it if
Complete beginners, who may prefer a shorter, slimmer design, and anyone wanting the easy sterilisation of body-safe silicone should look at a silicone alternative instead.
Design and Materials
The realistic styling here is the main draw: a defined head, textured shaft and moulded balls give it a lifelike look and a natural feel in the hand. The purple finish keeps it clearly a toy rather than trying too hard for skin tone realism, which some buyers actively prefer.
The body is TPE, a soft and flexible material that warms with use and has a pleasant give, while the core stays firm enough for control. The trade-off is that TPE is porous and less durable than silicone, so it will not sterilise as thoroughly and rewards gentle handling and separate storage.
Size and Handling
At 21.5 cm total with 16.5 cm insertable and a 1.5 inch diameter, this is a moderate rather than modest size. The girth is confident but not extreme, and the length gives room to work with, though it places this firmly outside true beginner territory.
The firmer core running through the soft outer means it holds its shape for angled, deliberate movement rather than flopping, which matters for both handheld and suction-cup use.
Suction Base and Harness Use
The suction cup base is the most practical feature. Pressed onto tile, a mirror, the floor or the side of the bath, it holds for hands-free play in a range of positions. Performance depends on a genuinely smooth, clean, non-porous surface, so results on textured or painted walls will be weaker.
The same flared base makes it compatible with most strap-on harnesses, so a couple can share it. That dual purpose is where this design earns its keep against plainer, base-less dildos.
Care and Cleaning
With no batteries or charging, upkeep is refreshingly simple: wash before and after each use with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner, then dry fully before storing.
Two rules follow directly from the material. Because it is TPE, use a water-based lubricant only, as silicone lube can degrade the surface. And because TPE is porous, store it away from other toys and consider a condom if sharing, since it cannot be sanitised as completely as silicone.
How It Compares
Against silicone realistic dongs, this undercuts on material quality but offers the same versatility of a suction base and harness compatibility. Silicone is non-porous, easier to sanitise and generally longer-lasting, so if hygiene and durability are your priorities, that is the upgrade path.
Against basic suction dildos, the moulded balls and sculpted shaft add to the realistic feel and give the harness fit a more secure seat. Within the affordable realistic category, it is a competent, well-rounded option.
The bottom line
The Loving Joy 8 Inch Dildo with Balls delivers what its category promises: a realistic shape, a dependable suction base and harness compatibility at an accessible level. If you are happy to give TPE the care it needs and the moderate size suits you, it is an easy recommendation; if you want effortless sterilisation or a beginner-friendly size, look to silicone or something smaller.
Frequently asked questions
Is this a good choice for beginners?
Not the most obvious one. With 16.5 cm insertable and a 1.5 inch diameter it is a moderate size that suits those with some experience. A first-time buyer may find a shorter, slimmer design more comfortable to start with.
What lubricant should I use with it?
A water-based lubricant only. The TPE material can be damaged by silicone-based lube, so stick to water-based to keep the surface in good condition.
Can I use it with a harness?
Yes. The flared suction cup base is compatible with most strap-on harnesses, so it can be used hands-free or shared with a partner as well as on its own.
How do I keep it clean and hygienic?
Wash before and after each use with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner, then dry fully before storing. As TPE is porous it cannot be fully sterilised, so store it separately and consider using a condom if sharing between partners.
Will the suction cup stick to any surface?
It works best on smooth, clean, non-porous surfaces such as tile, glass or a mirror. Textured, porous or painted surfaces will give a weaker hold or none at all.