XtoysLoving Joy 9 Inch Dildo with Balls Black Review
Editor's opinion
This is a full-size, realistically shaped dildo built for hands-free play and harness use. It suits people already comfortable with a mid-to-larger girth, but at 19 cm insertable and 4.5 cm across it is not a first purchase, and the TPE material asks for careful cleaning and water-based lube only.
The Loving Joy 9 Inch Dildo with Balls sets out to do a familiar job well: a lifelike shape, a substantial size, and a suction cup base that lets you use it hands-free or in a harness. It is a straightforward, no-frills piece with no motors or electronics to worry about.
What a buyer really needs to weigh here is size and material. The measurements are firmly in full-size territory, and TPE is an affordable, flexible material that comes with a few care rules attached. Get both of those right for you and this is a capable, versatile toy.
The good and the bad
What works
- Strong suction cup base for genuine hands-free play on smooth surfaces
- Flared base makes it compatible with most strap-on harnesses
- Realistic sculpted shape with defined head, shaft and balls
- No batteries or charging to worry about
- Firm yet flexible TPE gives a fuller, weighty feel
What to be aware of
- At 19 cm insertable and 4.5 cm diameter, too large for beginners
- TPE is porous and needs careful cleaning and water-based lube only
- TPE cannot be fully sterilised, so it is best kept to one user
Buy it if
People who already enjoy a fuller size and want a realistic shape with hands-free and harness options. It is a good fit for solo play against a wall or headboard, and for couples wanting a shareable strap-on toy.
Skip it if
Newcomers or anyone unsure about girth should start smaller, ideally with a body-safe silicone toy around 3 to 3.5 cm across. Those who want a material they can sterilise and share freely should look at platinum silicone instead.
Design and materials
The toy is sculpted to a realistic form, with a pronounced head, a veined shaft and moulded testicles at the base. At 4.5 cm in diameter and roughly 14 cm in circumference, it delivers a noticeable fullness. The TPE construction gives it a firm but flexible feel and a fair amount of weight, which is part of the appeal of a realistic dong.
TPE is worth understanding before you buy. It is softer and more affordable than silicone, but it is porous, meaning it cannot be fully sterilised. That has two practical consequences: it is best treated as a single-user toy, and it should only ever meet water-based lubricant, as oil and silicone lubes will break the material down over time.
How it is meant to be used
The strong suction cup is the standout feature. Pressed onto a smooth, flat surface such as a tiled wall, a bath, a floor or a headboard, it anchors the toy for hands-free solo play and lets you try positions you could not manage while holding it.
Because the base is flared, it also drops into most strap-on harnesses, so couples can share it. That versatility is genuine, though bear in mind the suction cup grips best on truly smooth surfaces. Textured tiles, painted walls or fabric-covered headboards will not hold it as reliably.
Size in perspective
This is unambiguously a full-size toy. Nineteen centimetres of insertable length and a 4.5 cm diameter put it well beyond beginner territory. If you are new to this, or unsure how much length and girth you are comfortable with, the honest advice is to start smaller and work up.
For those who already know they enjoy a substantial size, the measurements are the main reason to choose this over a slimmer model. Plenty of water-based lubricant and an unhurried approach make all the difference at this size.
Care and cleaning
Because TPE is porous, cleaning matters more here than with silicone. Wash it with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner before and after every use, paying attention to the moulded detailing where residue can collect, and let it dry fully before storing it somewhere cool and dry.
Keep it away from direct contact with other toys in storage, as some materials can react with one another, and stick strictly to water-based lubricant to protect the surface. Treated well, TPE lasts reasonably, but it will never match silicone for longevity or hygiene.
How it compares
Against a silicone realistic dildo of similar size, this trades some durability and hygiene for a lower cost and a soft, lifelike feel. Silicone can be sterilised and shared more freely; TPE cannot, so this is better thought of as a personal toy.
Within its own category it covers the essentials competently: realistic shape, reliable suction cup, harness-ready base and no electronics to fail. If those features are what you are after and the size suits you, it is a sensible, uncomplicated choice.
The bottom line
If you are comfortable with a fuller size and want a realistic, versatile dildo for hands-free or harness play, the Loving Joy 9 Inch is a practical pick. Just go in clear-eyed about the size, and be prepared to keep it clean, keep it to yourself and keep it to water-based lube.
Frequently asked questions
Is this suitable for beginners?
Not really. At 19 cm insertable and 4.5 cm in diameter it is a full-size toy. If you are new to this or unsure about girth, a smaller silicone toy around 3 to 3.5 cm across is a wiser starting point.
What lubricant should I use with it?
Water-based lubricant only. As TPE is used here, oil-based and silicone-based lubricants can degrade the material over time, so avoid them.
Can it be used in a harness?
Yes. The base is flared, which makes it compatible with most strap-on harnesses, so couples can share it as well as using it solo.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner before and after each use, taking care around the moulded detailing, then dry it fully and store it somewhere cool and dry, ideally not touching other toys.
Can I share it with a partner?
Because TPE is porous and cannot be fully sterilised, it is best treated as a single-user toy. If you want something to share more freely, choose a platinum silicone dildo that can be sterilised.