XtoysLoving Joy 9 Inch Dildo with Balls Clear Review
Editor's opinion
This is a full-sized, realistically shaped dildo with genuine girth and a versatile suction cup base that also works with many harnesses. It suits people who already enjoy a substantial size, but the 19 cm insertable length and TPE material mean it is neither a beginner's first toy nor the easiest to care for.
The Loving Joy 9 Inch Dildo with Balls sets out to do a familiar job well: a lifelike shape, a good deal of length and girth, and a base that lets you use it hands-free or in a harness. The clear TPE finish gives it a see-through look that some buyers particularly like.
The key things to weigh here are the dimensions and the material. Nine inches with 19 cm insertable is a serious size, and TPE is a porous material that asks for a little more care than silicone. Neither is a fault as such, but both shape who this is for.
The good and the bad
What works
- Substantial 19 cm insertable length and 14 cm circumference for those who want a fuller feel
- Suction cup base allows genuine hands-free play on smooth surfaces
- Base fits many O-ring harnesses, so it works solo or with a partner
- No batteries or charging needed, so nothing to run flat
- Clear see-through finish for buyers who prefer the look
What to be aware of
- At 9 inches with 19 cm insertable, far too large for beginners
- TPE is porous and less hygienic over time than silicone
- Restricted to water-based lubricant, as silicone and oil degrade TPE
- Needs thorough cleaning and full drying before storage
Buy it if
Those who already enjoy a fuller, longer size and want a realistic shape with the flexibility of both suction cup and harness use.
Skip it if
Newcomers to insertable toys, who would be better served by something in the four to five inch range with a slimmer diameter, and anyone wanting a non-porous, easy-care material should look at a body-safe silicone alternative.
Shape and Size
With 24 cm in total and 19 cm insertable, this is unambiguously a large toy. The 4.5 cm diameter and 14 cm circumference add real girth to that length, so the size works together rather than being long and slim. The sculpted head, shaft and balls give it the realistic look and shape the design is going for.
This is not a size to underestimate. Anyone newer to insertable toys should think carefully about the dimensions and, whatever their experience, plenty of water-based lubricant and an unhurried pace will make all the difference.
Suction Cup and Harness Use
The flat suction cup base is the most versatile part of the design. On a smooth, non-porous surface such as tiles, glass or a headboard it anchors the toy for hands-free play, which is a genuine advantage over a plain base.
The same base is shaped to fit many O-ring harnesses, so it can also be used with a partner. Worth noting that suction cups hold best on truly smooth surfaces; textured or painted walls and most fabrics will not give a reliable grip.
Material and Care
The clear TPE has a smooth, skin-like surface, and the see-through finish is part of the appeal for some buyers. The trade-off is that TPE is porous, which means it cannot be sterilised the way non-porous silicone can and will need replacing sooner if hygiene is a priority.
Care matters more with this material. Use only water-based lubricant, since silicone and oil-based products can degrade TPE. Wash before and after use with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner, and let it dry completely before storing to keep it in good condition.
How It Compares
Against silicone dildos of a similar shape, this one trades non-porous, boil-clean convenience for a lower cost of entry and a clear finish that silicone rarely offers. If ease of cleaning and long-term hygiene are what you care about most, a body-safe silicone toy is the more reassuring choice.
Within the realistic, suction-cup category it holds its own on versatility. The combination of hands-free and harness compatibility in one large, lifelike toy is exactly what buyers of this style tend to be looking for.
The bottom line
If you already enjoy a fuller size and want a realistic shape that works both hands-free and in a harness, this delivers on all of those fronts. Just go in clear-eyed about the length, stick to water-based lubricant, and accept that TPE needs more careful cleaning than silicone would.
Frequently asked questions
Is this suitable for beginners?
Not really. At 9 inches total with 19 cm insertable and a 4.5 cm diameter, this is a large toy. Those newer to insertable toys would be better starting with something shorter and slimmer, then working up if they wish.
What lubricant should I use with it?
Only water-based lubricant. Silicone and oil-based products can degrade TPE over time, so avoid them. Plenty of water-based lube is also sensible given the size.
Can I use it in a harness?
Yes. The flat suction cup base is shaped to fit many O-ring harnesses, so it can be used with a partner as well as solo.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash before and after use with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner, then let it dry completely before storing. As TPE is porous it cannot be sterilised like silicone, so thorough cleaning matters.
Will the suction cup stick to any surface?
It holds firmly on flat, smooth, non-porous surfaces such as tiles, glass or a headboard. It will not grip reliably on textured, painted or fabric surfaces.