XtoysLoving Joy 9 Inch Realistic Silicone Dildo Review
Editor's opinion
This is a full-size, realistic silicone dildo built around a strong suction base and harness use. It suits people who already enjoy a substantial length and girth and want the flexibility of solo hands-free play or partnered strap-on use. The main caveat is size: at nearly 9 inches insertable and a 15cm circumference, it is not a gentle introduction.
The Loving Joy 9 Inch Realistic Silicone Dildo sets out to do two jobs at once: deliver a lifelike, veined shape with real presence, and give you a strong suction base that opens up hands-free and harness play. On paper that makes it a versatile addition rather than a single-use novelty.
What a buyer really needs to weigh here is scale and material. This is a genuinely full-size toy in a body-safe silicone, which brings both the benefits and the particular care requirements of that material. Getting the fit right for your own experience matters more than any feature list.
The good and the bad
What works
- Body-safe liquid silicone that warms with contact
- Strong suction base for hands-free positioning on flat surfaces
- Harness compatible for partnered strap-on use
- No batteries or charging to worry about
- Realistic shaped head and veined shaft for a natural profile
What to be aware of
- A substantial 5.2cm diameter and 18.5cm insertable length, so not beginner-friendly
- Silicone rules out silicone-based lubricant, limiting your lube choice
- Textured veins and head need a little more attention when cleaning
Buy it if
People who already enjoy a full length and girth and want one toy that covers solo hands-free play and partnered strap-on use. The suction base makes it especially appealing if you like experimenting with positions on your own.
Skip it if
Anyone new to insertable toys or who prefers something slimline. If this is an early purchase, a narrower dildo around 3 to 4cm in diameter with a suction base would be a more comfortable starting point.
Design And Materials
The body is moulded in liquid silicone with a shaped head, defined shaft and raised veins for a lifelike look. Silicone is one of the more reassuring materials to choose: it is non-porous, body-safe and warms to body temperature during use, and the surface carries a natural degree of give while the shaft stays firm enough for controlled handling.
The numbers are the headline, though. At 23cm total, 18.5cm insertable, 5.2cm across and 15cm around, this is a substantial toy. Around 320g of weight gives it a stable, balanced feel, but the girth in particular is the figure to respect. If your previous toys have been slimmer, this represents a noticeable step up rather than a like-for-like replacement.
Suction Base And Harness Use
The strong suction base is the most practical feature. It fixes to most smooth, flat surfaces such as tiles, a mirror, a headboard or the floor, which frees your hands and makes a wider range of solo positions possible. How well it holds will depend on the surface, so a genuinely flat, clean and non-porous area gives the best result.
The same base is harness compatible, so with a suitable strap-on harness it can be worn for partnered play. That dual purpose is the real value here, and the weight helps it feel planted rather than wobbly once mounted.
Cleaning And Care
Silicone is straightforward to keep hygienic. Wash with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after use, giving the veins around the shaft and the ridge of the head a little extra attention since texture can trap residue. Dry it fully before storing somewhere clean and dry.
The one rule to remember is lubricant: use a water-based lube, not a silicone-based one, as silicone lubricants can degrade a silicone surface over time. Where possible, store it away from other silicone toys so surfaces do not react against each other.
How It Compares
Against battery or rechargeable realistic vibrators, this offers no vibration but nothing to charge or replace, and a simpler, quieter experience that some prefer. Against cheaper novelty dongs, the silicone construction is a clear step up in both safety and feel.
Within the realistic silicone category, its distinguishing points are the strong suction base and harness compatibility combined at this full size. If you want the same material and shape in a friendlier scale, look for a similar model with a smaller diameter; if you specifically want the presence and the versatile base, this delivers exactly that.
The bottom line
If you already enjoy a full length and girth and want one toy that handles hands-free solo play and partnered strap-on use, the Loving Joy 9 Inch is a sensibly made, body-safe choice. Just go in clear-eyed about the size and keep a water-based lubricant to hand; it is a confident pick, not a first one.
Frequently asked questions
Is this dildo suitable for beginners?
Not really. With a 5.2cm diameter, a 15cm circumference and 18.5cm of insertable length, it is a full-size toy. Newcomers would be more comfortable starting with something slimmer, ideally around 3 to 4cm across, and working up from there.
What lubricant should I use with it?
A water-based lubricant. Because the toy is silicone, silicone-based lubricants can degrade the surface over time, so they are best avoided. Water-based lube is compatible and easy to reapply.
Can it be used with a harness?
Yes. The suction base is harness compatible, so with a suitable strap-on harness the dildo can be worn for partnered play as well as used hands-free on a flat surface.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after use, paying attention to the veined shaft and shaped head, then dry thoroughly. Store it somewhere clean and dry and, where possible, apart from other silicone items.
Does it need batteries or charging?
No. This is a non-vibrating dildo with no power required, so there is nothing to charge or replace.