XtoysLoving Joy 9 Inch Remote Vibrating Dildo Review
Editor's opinion
This is a substantial, realistic vibrating dildo that adds two genuinely useful features to a familiar shape: a suction base for hands-free solo play and a remote so a partner can take charge. Its size and TPE construction mean it suits confident users rather than complete beginners, and it needs careful cleaning and water-based lube only.
The Loving Joy 9 Inch Remote Vibrating Dildo sets out to be a versatile all-rounder: a lifelike shaft with balls, a suction cup for solo use against a smooth surface, and ten vibration functions you can change from across the room. It is trying to cover both solo and couples play in one product.
What a buyer should weigh is the combination of scale and material. This is a full-size toy, and it is moulded in TPE rather than silicone, which affects both what you can pair it with and how you look after it. Neither is a fault, but both shape who this is really for.
The good and the bad
What works
- Suction cup base allows genuine hands-free solo use on tiles, a headboard or the floor
- Wireless remote lets a partner control the ten functions without reaching in
- USB rechargeable, so no batteries to hunt for or replace
- Full-size, realistic transparent design with defined shaft and balls
- Ten functions cover both steady speeds and varied patterns
What to be aware of
- TPE is porous and needs more careful cleaning than silicone, and it cannot be fully sterilised
- Water-based lubricant only; silicone lube can degrade the surface
- Generous girth and length make it too much for a first-time or nervous buyer
- Remote adds a component that relies on batteries or signal and can be misplaced
Buy it if
Confident users who already enjoy full-size insertable toys, and couples who like the idea of one partner controlling the vibration remotely. The suction base makes it a strong pick for anyone who wants reliable hands-free solo play.
Skip it if
Beginners or anyone unsure about girth should start smaller, and those who want a low-maintenance, boilable material should look at a body-safe silicone dildo instead.
Design and materials
The toy is moulded in transparent TPE with a defined shaft and balls, giving it a realistic look and a full-size presence. It is a firm, substantial piece rather than a discreet one.
TPE is soft and lifelike, but it is porous, which is the key thing to understand before buying. Unlike silicone it cannot be sterilised, so it needs thorough cleaning and careful storage away from other toys. It also rules out silicone lubricant, which can react with the surface over time.
How it is meant to be used
The suction cup base is the standout feature. Pressed onto a smooth, flat surface such as tiles, a headboard or the floor, it holds the dildo steady for hands-free use in a variety of positions, which many rigid dildos cannot offer.
The ten vibration functions run through the shaft and cycle between steady speeds and patterns. Because they are worked from a wireless remote, control can be handed to a partner easily, making this as much a shared toy as a solo one.
Care and charging
Being USB rechargeable is a real convenience: there are no AAAs to keep in a drawer, and you charge it the way you would a phone accessory. Do check the remote's own power source, as that is a separate component that can run down or go missing.
For cleaning, wash before and after every use with warm water and a proper toy cleaner, dry it fully, and store it apart from other toys. Pair it only with a water-based lubricant. TPE rewards a bit of diligence and punishes neglect, so build the cleaning into your routine.
How it compares
Against a plain rigid dildo, this adds vibration and hands-free suction, which broadens what you can do with it considerably. Against a silicone vibrating dildo, it typically comes in more affordably but trades away the easier cleaning and lube flexibility that silicone offers.
The remote is the feature that sets it apart from most vibrating dildos in this bracket. If shared control appeals, that is a meaningful advantage; if you only ever play solo, it is a convenience rather than a necessity.
The bottom line
If you want a lifelike, full-size vibrating dildo that works hands-free and can be controlled by a partner, this ticks an unusual number of boxes for its class. Just go in clear-eyed about the size and the extra care TPE demands, and it should serve confident users and couples well.
Frequently asked questions
Is this suitable for beginners?
Not really. With a generous girth and a full-size insertable length, it is better suited to those already comfortable with larger toys. A newcomer would be happier starting with something slimmer and shorter.
What lubricant should I use with it?
Use a water-based lubricant only. Silicone lubricant can degrade TPE over time, so it is best avoided with this toy.
Does the remote need batteries?
The dildo itself is USB rechargeable, but remotes of this kind usually take their own small battery. Check what is supplied and keep a spare so you are not caught out.
Will the suction cup hold on any surface?
It is designed for smooth, flat, non-porous surfaces such as tiles, a headboard or the floor. It will not grip textured, uneven or fabric surfaces reliably.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash before and after use with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner, dry it fully, and store it separately from other toys. As TPE is porous it cannot be sterilised, so consistent cleaning matters.