XtoysLoving Joy Butt Plug Black Review: A Sensible Starter
Editor's opinion
The Loving Joy Butt Plug is a straightforward, battery-free plug shaped for gradual insertion, with a flared base that keeps things safe. Its 9 cm widest circumference makes it a confidence-building intermediate size rather than the absolute smallest starter, so weigh that against your experience before buying.
Loving Joy pitch this as an everyday plug that works for both newcomers and people who already know what they like. The appeal is in its simplicity: a classic tapered profile, a flared handle base, and nothing to charge or replace. It sets out to do one job well rather than dazzle with features.
What a buyer really needs to weigh here is the size. The brand describes it as beginner-friendly, and the shape genuinely supports that, but a 9 cm circumference at its widest is a meaningful girth. That single figure decides whether this is your first plug or your second.
The good and the bad
What works
- Tapered tip and gradual widening designed for a paced, comfortable insertion
- Flared handle base means a secure hold and controlled, easy removal
- No batteries or charging, so it is always ready and low maintenance
- A confidence-building intermediate size for those progressing beyond the smallest plugs
What to be aware of
- At 9 cm circumference it is firmer going than the very smallest starter plugs
- Material is not specified, so lubricant compatibility cannot be confirmed from the listing
- No vibration or texture; purely a static wearable plug
Buy it if
Anyone easing into anal play who wants a classic, fuss-free plug, and experienced users after something quick and low maintenance for everyday wear.
Skip it if
Complete newcomers who have never used a plug before may find 9 cm around a lot to take first time and should consider a slimmer graduated starter or a training set. Anyone wanting buzz or movement should look at a vibrating plug instead.
Shape And Fit
The design follows the tried-and-tested plug profile: a pointed, tapered tip that widens to a 9 cm circumference at its broadest, then narrows to a neck that lets the body hold naturally in place once seated. This is the shape most people picture when they think of a plug, and it works because it lets you stop and adjust as the girth increases.
The honest caveat is that 9 cm around, roughly 3.5 inches, is a fuller intermediate width. The tapered entry helps enormously, but the widest point still asks something of you. If you have used plugs before this is a natural next step; if you have not, a graduated set that starts slimmer may serve you better as a genuine first purchase.
The Flared Base
The flared handle base is the single most important safety feature on any plug, and this one has it done properly: it sits flush and stops the plug travelling too far. That is non-negotiable for anal use, and it is good to see it built as a solid handle rather than a token ridge.
Beyond safety, the base gives you something to grip, which makes both insertion and removal more controlled. A wider base can be noticeable if you plan to sit or wear it for long stretches, so it suits shorter sessions and hands-on use rather than all-day discreet wear.
Care, Lubricant And Everyday Use
The listing does not state the material, and that matters more than it might seem. If the plug is silicone, you should pair it only with a water-based lubricant, since silicone lubricant can degrade a silicone surface. If it is a firmer plastic or another material, the same water-based choice is still the safe default. When in doubt, water-based is the universally compatible option and will not let you down.
Cleaning is simple: warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner before and after every use, then store it somewhere clean and dry. Being battery-free means there are no ports or electronics to work around, which makes it easy to keep genuinely hygienic.
How It Compares
Against vibrating or app-controlled plugs, this is deliberately plain. There is no motor, no remote and no texture, which is precisely the point for anyone who finds those features unnecessary or off-putting. The trade-off is that you get sensation from fullness alone.
Against true beginner sets, it sits a rung up. Many starter kits begin with a slimmer plug and work upward; this one lands around the middle of that progression. For that reason it is arguably a better second plug, or a first plug for someone who already knows they are comfortable with a moderate girth.
The bottom line
The Loving Joy Butt Plug in black is a well-judged, low-maintenance plug with the right essentials: a gentle taper and a proper flared base. It earns a confident recommendation for anyone with a little experience, or for a beginner who has read the 9 cm figure and knows that is a comfortable stretch for them.
Frequently asked questions
Is this plug suitable for a complete beginner?
It is beginner-friendly in shape, thanks to the tapered tip, but the 9 cm widest circumference is a moderate girth. If it would be your very first plug ever, a slimmer graduated starter or a training set may be a gentler place to begin.
What lubricant should I use with it?
A water-based lubricant is the safe, universally compatible choice and is essential for anal play generally. Because the listing does not confirm the material, avoid silicone lubricant to be certain you do not risk damaging the surface.
Does it need batteries or charging?
No. This is a purely static plug with no motor, so there is nothing to charge or replace. It is always ready to use.
Is the base safe for anal use?
Yes. It has a flared handle base that sits flush and prevents the plug from travelling too far, which is the key safety requirement for any anal toy, while also making removal easy.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash it with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner before and after each use, then keep it somewhere clean and dry. With no electronics, cleaning is straightforward.