XtoysLoving Joy Butt Plug Training Kit Purple Review
Editor's opinion
This is a beginner-focused set of four plugs that step up in size, letting you progress at your own pace rather than committing to one size blind. It suits newcomers who value a gradual approach, though the largest plug's 4.5 inch circumference means the final step is a genuine jump worth respecting.
The Loving Joy Butt Plug Training Kit sets out to solve one of the most common problems for anyone new to anal play: guessing the right size to start with. Instead of buying a single plug and hoping, you get four in graduating sizes, so you can begin gently and only move up when the current size feels easy.
The appeal is control and reassurance. What a buyer should weigh is whether the size steps genuinely suit them, how the shape handles, and what the material demands in terms of lubricant and cleaning. A kit like this lives or dies on whether the progression feels natural, so those numbers matter.
The good and the bad
What works
- Four graduating sizes remove the guesswork of choosing a first plug
- Tapered tips designed to make initial insertion gentler
- Flared handle bases keep each plug safe and easy to withdraw
- No batteries or charging to worry about
- Sensible smallest size for genuine first-timers
What to be aware of
- The jump to the largest plug's 4.5 inch circumference is a notable step up
- Middle two plugs share very similar dimensions, so the progression isn't perfectly even
- No stated body material, so lubricant compatibility needs checking before use
Buy it if
Complete beginners to anal play who want to build up gradually and confidently, and anyone returning after a break who prefers to ease back in rather than start where they left off.
Skip it if
Experienced users who already know their preferred size and would find the smaller plugs redundant, and anyone wanting a plug for long wear or hands-free retention, where a slimmer neck and rounded base design tends to serve better.
Design and materials
Every plug in the set follows the same sensible template: a tapered tip to ease entry and a broad handle base that stays outside the body. That base is the single most important safety feature on any plug, since it prevents anything travelling too far, and having it on all four is reassuring.
The product details don't specify the exact material, so it's worth confirming before buying if that matters to you. If the plugs are silicone, you should pair them only with a water-based lubricant, as silicone lubricant can degrade silicone toys over time. Water-based lube is the safe default for a training kit like this regardless.
How the sizing actually progresses
The insertable lengths run from 3 to 4 inches, which is modest and appropriate for beginners. The more meaningful measurement for comfort is circumference. Plugs 4 and 3 both sit at 3 inches around, plug 2 at 3.5 inches, and plug 1 at 4.5 inches.
That means the first two steps are gentle, but the leap from the 3.5 inch plug to the 4.5 inch plug is significant. In practice you may find the early stages easy and the final stage genuinely challenging, so don't be discouraged if the largest takes far longer to feel comfortable than the smaller ones did. The whole point of the kit is that you never have to rush it.
Using it sensibly
The intended method is straightforward: start with the smallest, use plenty of a suitable lubricant, and stay with each size until it feels easy before moving up. The tapered tips help, but the anus produces no natural lubrication, so generous, reapplied lube is not optional here.
Stop if anything feels uncomfortable rather than pushing through. Progression over days or weeks is entirely normal, and there is no timetable to beat.
Care and cleaning
Wash each plug before and after use with warm water and a proper toy cleaner, dry thoroughly, and store somewhere clean and dry. Anal toys in particular should never skip a thorough clean.
With four plugs to look after, a little organisation helps. Keeping them somewhere dust-free and separate from other items keeps the smaller sizes ready for the next session without any faff.
How it compares
Against buying a single plug, a training kit is the more forgiving choice for a beginner because it doesn't ask you to predict your comfort level in advance. Compared with premium single plugs, this set trades refinement and a guaranteed material for breadth of sizing.
If you already know your size, a single well-made plug is the better spend. If you're starting from scratch and want a clear path upward, the graduating format is exactly what a first purchase should offer.
The bottom line
As a first step into anal play, the Loving Joy Butt Plug Training Kit does the sensible thing by letting you build up gradually rather than gambling on one size. Just go in knowing the last plug is a real step up, keep the water-based lube handy, and confirm the material suits your needs before you buy.
Frequently asked questions
Is this kit suitable for a complete beginner?
Yes, it's designed for exactly that. Starting with the smallest plug, which has a 3 inch circumference and 3 inch insertable length, gives newcomers a gentle entry point, and you only move up when each size feels comfortable.
What lubricant should I use?
A water-based lubricant is the safest default and works with virtually any toy material. Because the product details don't confirm the material, avoid silicone lubricant unless you know the plugs aren't silicone, as it can damage silicone toys. Anal play needs generous lubrication reapplied as needed.
How big does the largest plug get?
The largest plug measures 5 inches total with a 4 inch insertable length and a 4.5 inch widest circumference. That's a meaningful step up from the others, so treat it as a longer-term goal rather than something to reach quickly.
Do the plugs need batteries?
No. These are non-vibrating plugs with no power required, so there's nothing to charge or replace.
How do I clean them?
Wash each plug with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after every use, dry thoroughly, and store somewhere clean and dry. Thorough cleaning is especially important with anal toys.