XtoysLoving Joy Silicone Anal Plug Medium Review: A Sensible Step Up
Editor's opinion
The Loving Joy Silicone Anal Plug Medium is a sensibly shaped, body-safe plug for anyone stepping up from a smaller size. The tapered tip and flared base cover the basics well, but at 10.5cm circumference it is not the gentlest starting point, so the 'beginner' label deserves a second look.
Butt plugs live and die by two things: shape and size. This Loving Joy plug gets the shape broadly right, pairing a tapered tip with a flared safety base in a single piece of smooth silicone. It needs no power, no charging and very little fuss, which is exactly what most people want from a plug.
The real question is the size. The brand pitches this as suitable for beginners and intermediate users alike, but a widest circumference of 10.5cm is a meaningful girth. Reading the specification carefully tells you more about who this suits than the marketing does, and that is what this assessment focuses on.
The good and the bad
What works
- Body-safe silicone that is easy to clean and non-porous
- Tapered tip designed for a gradual, controlled insertion
- Flared base for safe use and simple removal
- No batteries or charging ever needed
- Seamless one-piece finish with no hard edges to catch
What to be aware of
- At 10.5cm circumference it is not truly a first-ever plug
- Silicone rules out silicone-based lubricant
- The fuller body means committing to plenty of lubricant every time
Buy it if
Anyone who has already used a slim starter plug and wants a genuine sense of fullness, plus intermediate users after a reliable, low-maintenance silicone option.
Skip it if
Complete beginners should look elsewhere first. If this is your first plug, start with something noticeably slimmer in the same silicone family and work up to this girth.
Shape And Fit
The design follows the classic plug template: a tapered tip to ease things in, a fuller body for a sense of fullness, and a narrower neck so it settles into place. The flared base is the part that matters most for safety, sitting flat against the body and giving you something firm to hold when removing it.
The numbers tell the honest story. A 9cm insertable length is comfortable and manageable, but the 10.5cm circumference at the widest point is where the 'beginner' framing stretches a little. That girth is a satisfying step up for someone with a bit of experience, and a big ask for someone with none. Think of this as the second plug in a collection rather than the first.
Material And Feel
Silicone is the sensible choice for anything internal: it is non-porous, warms to body temperature and has no seam to irritate. That makes this plug hygienic and pleasant to handle, and it should last well with basic care.
The one firm rule the material creates is lubricant. Silicone and silicone-based lubricant do not mix, as the lube can gradually degrade the surface, so keep to a water-based formula. The trade-off is that water-based lube dries out faster, so you will want to reapply, and with a body this wide a generous amount is not optional.
Cleaning And Care
Maintenance is straightforward. Wash before and after every use with warm water and a proper toy cleaner or mild soap, paying particular attention to the neck and base where residue collects. Let it dry fully before storing it somewhere clean, dry and out of direct sunlight.
Because there is no motor or battery compartment, cleaning is simpler than with a vibrating toy and there is nothing to wear out electronically. It is ready whenever you are, with no charging to remember.
How It Compares
Against vibrating or remote-controlled plugs, this is deliberately basic, and that is a strength for anyone who just wants a dependable plug without a charging cable or app. What you lose is any added stimulation, so if buzz is what you are after, this is not that product.
Within the non-vibrating silicone category, its distinguishing feature is the middle-of-the-road size. Many ranges offer small, medium and large; this medium is best understood as exactly that, and choosing your size honestly matters far more than the brand.
The bottom line
This is a well-made, body-safe plug that does the fundamentals properly and asks very little in upkeep. Buy it if you already know you enjoy this and want a step up in girth; if you are brand new to plugs, treat this as your second purchase and start smaller.
Frequently asked questions
Is this plug genuinely suitable for beginners?
It is described that way, but at 10.5cm circumference it is better suited to someone who has already used a slimmer plug. Absolute beginners will find a smaller starter size more comfortable and less daunting.
What lubricant should I use with it?
A water-based lubricant only. Because the plug is silicone, silicone-based lube can damage the surface over time. Water-based works safely and can simply be reapplied as needed.
Is it safe to use without worrying about it slipping in?
Yes. The flared base is a deliberate safety feature that sits against the body, stopping the plug from travelling too far and giving you a secure grip for removal.
Does it need batteries or charging?
No. This is a non-vibrating plug with no motor, so there is nothing to charge or replace. It is ready to use at any time.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash before and after each use with warm water and a toy cleaner or mild soap, dry it fully, then store it somewhere clean, dry and out of direct sunlight.