XtoysLoving Joy Silicone Lubricant 100ml Review: Long-Lasting Slip
Editor's opinion
This is a straightforward silicone-based lubricant that stays slippery far longer than a water-based one and holds up in the bath or shower. It suits anyone who wants fewer top-ups and doesn't rely on silicone toys, which it must never be used with.
Silicone lubricants occupy a distinct niche: they don't absorb into the skin, so they keep their slip far longer than water-based formulas and don't dry out mid-use. Loving Joy's 100ml bottle is a no-frills entry into that category, made from dimethicone and related silicone ingredients, with a dispenser cap and a waterproof formula.
The decision here isn't really about brand loyalty. It's about whether silicone is the right chemistry for you at all. That comes down to what you'll use it with, whether you're happy with the cleanup trade-off, and how much you value longevity over easy rinsing.
The good and the bad
What works
- Long-lasting slip that rarely needs reapplying
- Waterproof, so it works in the bath or shower
- A little goes a long way, stretching the 100ml
- Paraben free formula
- Compatible with latex condoms, glass, metal and ABS toys
What to be aware of
- Must not be used with silicone toys, which it can degrade
- Not water soluble, so needs soap and warm water to clean off
- Can leave residue on towels and bedding
- Dispenser cap can make it hard to control small amounts
Buy it if
Anyone who wants a durable, non-drying lubricant for longer sessions or wet play, and who uses glass, metal or ABS toys, or none at all.
Skip it if
Owners of silicone toys should look elsewhere, as should anyone who wants a lube that rinses off easily with water. In both cases a good water-based lubricant is the safer choice.
Texture and longevity
The defining feature of any silicone lubricant is that it doesn't soak into the skin the way water-based products do. That means it stays slippery for much longer and doesn't turn tacky halfway through, which is why it's often favoured for longer sessions.
The practical upshot is that you need very little. Starting with a small amount and adding more only if wanted is sensible, both because the slip is substantial and because the 100ml bottle will last far longer if you're not over-applying.
Waterproof, with a trade-off
Because silicone doesn't dissolve in water, this lubricant keeps working in the bath, shower or pool rather than washing straight off. That's a genuine advantage for wet play, where water-based products disappear almost immediately.
The same property has a downside worth knowing before you buy: it can leave a residue on fabrics. It's worth keeping it away from good towels and bedding, and being prepared for a proper wash rather than a quick rinse.
What it can and can't go with
This is the single most important point. Silicone lubricants are fine with latex condoms and with glass, metal and ABS toys. They must not be used with silicone toys, because silicone can degrade silicone over time, damaging the surface of the toy.
If your collection is silicone-based, this simply isn't the right lubricant, and no amount of longevity makes up for a ruined toy. A water-based lubricant is the correct partner for those items.
Cleaning and care
Since the formula isn't water soluble, it won't rinse away with water alone. Soap and warm water are needed to clean it from skin and surfaces, and you may want a flannel to hand.
The formula is paraben free and built around dimethicone, cyclopentasiloxane, cyclotetrasiloxane and dimethiconol. That's a fairly standard silicone blend, so anyone who has used silicone lubricants before will know roughly what to expect in terms of feel and cleanup.
The bottom line
As a silicone lubricant, this does exactly what the category promises: long slip, waterproof performance and real economy from a small amount. Buy it if you want longevity and don't use silicone toys; skip it if you do, or if easy water rinsing matters more to you than staying power.
Frequently asked questions
Can I use this with silicone toys?
No. Silicone lubricant can degrade silicone toys over time, damaging their surface. Use a water-based lubricant with silicone toys instead. This lube is fine with glass, metal and ABS toys.
Is it safe with latex condoms?
Yes. Silicone lubricants are compatible with latex condoms, unlike oil-based products which can weaken latex.
How do I clean it off?
Because it isn't water soluble, it won't rinse away with water alone. Use soap and warm water on skin and surfaces. Be mindful of towels and bedding, as it can leave a residue on fabrics.
Will it last longer than a water-based lubricant?
Yes. Silicone doesn't absorb into the skin or dry out the way water-based lubricants do, so it stays slippery far longer and rarely needs reapplying.
Can I use it in the shower or bath?
Yes. It's waterproof, so it keeps working in wet conditions rather than washing away immediately, which is one of its main advantages over water-based formulas.