XtoysSilexD 9 Inch Girthy Dual Density Silicone Dildo Review
Editor's opinion
This is a large, lifelike silicone dildo with a firm core, a soft outer layer and a suction cup base that doubles as a harness mount. It suits experienced users who specifically want a fuller, weightier feel. The sheer girth is the deciding factor, and it makes this a poor choice for anyone new to insertable toys.
The SilexD 9 inch is aimed at a clear audience: people who already know they enjoy a substantial, realistic toy and want the material and construction to match. Its headline promise is dual density silicone, a firm inner core wrapped in a softer, skin-like surface, which is meant to hold its shape while flexing more naturally than a single-firmness piece.
The thing to weigh before buying is the size. At 9 inches long with an 18 cm girth, this is not a subtle or forgiving toy, and the specification is doing most of the talking. The suction cup base adds real versatility, but the fuller dimensions decide whether this is right for you long before anything else does.
The good and the bad
What works
- Dual density silicone gives a firm core with a softer, more yielding surface
- Non-porous silicone is hygienic and straightforward to clean
- Strong suction base allows genuine hands-free play on smooth surfaces
- Flared base is compatible with most strap-on harnesses
- No batteries or charging to worry about
What to be aware of
- An 18 cm girth is very substantial and unsuitable for beginners
- The size and weight make it less practical for travel or discreet storage
- Silicone body rules out silicone lubricant, so a water-based lube is essential
- Suction cup only holds reliably on smooth, flat surfaces
Buy it if
Experienced users who specifically want a large, girthy, realistic silicone toy, and anyone who values the flexibility of hands-free suction play or harness compatibility.
Skip it if
Newcomers to insertable toys or anyone who prefers a slimmer, more manageable size. If that is you, look for something in the 3 to 4 cm diameter range and build up gradually.
Design and materials
The whole body is silicone, which is the right choice for an insertable toy: it is non-porous, body-safe and holds up well over time. The dual density build is the real selling point here, pairing a firm internal core with a softer outer layer so the toy keeps its shape while the surface gives a little more naturally than a single-density piece would.
Be realistic about what dual density does and does not change, though. It affects how the surface feels and moves, not the dimensions. An 18 cm girth is an 18 cm girth regardless of how yielding the outer layer is, so the softness makes a large toy more comfortable rather than making it a smaller one.
Size and who it suits
This is the part that should drive the decision. At 23 cm long with 22 cm insertable and an 18 cm girth, this is a deliberately full, weighty design. The brand's own copy is candid about this, describing it as suited to experienced users rather than beginners, and that framing is accurate.
If you already own and enjoy a larger toy, the girth is likely the point of appeal. If you are still working out what you like, this is far too much to start with, and plenty of patience and generous lubrication would be needed regardless of experience.
Suction base and versatility
The flared suction cup is what lifts this above a plain hand-held dildo. On smooth, flat surfaces such as tiles, a floor or a headboard it fixes in place for hands-free use, and the same flared base works with most strap-on harnesses for partnered play.
The practical caveat is the surface. Suction cups need clean, smooth, non-porous ground to grip properly, so a painted or textured wall, grouted tile lines or fabric will not hold it. It is worth knowing where in your home it will actually stick before you rely on it.
Care and cleaning
Silicone is easy to look after, which is one of the quiet advantages of this material. Wash before and after use with warm water and a proper toy cleaner, and dry it fully before storing.
One firm rule applies: use only a water-based lubricant. Silicone lubricant can degrade a silicone surface over time, so keep the two apart. Given the girth, a generous amount of water-based lube is not optional here, it is essential.
The bottom line
The SilexD 9 inch is a well-specified, body-safe silicone toy that does exactly what it sets out to do, provided you genuinely want something this size. For experienced users after a fuller, realistic feel with the bonus of hands-free and harness play, it is an easy recommendation. For everyone else, the girth alone should send you towards something more modest.
Frequently asked questions
Is this suitable for beginners?
No. With an 18 cm girth and 22 cm insertable length, this is a large toy intended for experienced users. Anyone new to insertable toys should start with something considerably slimmer and shorter.
What lubricant should I use with it?
A water-based lubricant only. The silicone body can be damaged by silicone-based lube, so keep to water-based, and use it generously given the size.
Will the suction cup work on any surface?
It needs a smooth, flat, non-porous surface such as glazed tile, a hard floor or a smooth headboard. It will not grip textured walls, grouted joints or fabric.
Can I use it with a harness?
Yes. The flared base is compatible with most strap-on harnesses, so it works for partnered play as well as hands-free solo use.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after use, then dry it fully. As non-porous silicone it is simple to keep hygienic; store it away from other silicone items.