XtoysSilexD Dual Density Tapered Silicone Butt Plug Medium Review
Editor's opinion
The SilexD medium is a well-specified silicone plug whose dual density build gives a firmer core under a softer surface, with a tapered tip and a flared suction base for hands-free wear. It suits someone stepping up from a starter plug, though at 4 cm across it is not a first purchase, and the silicone body rules out silicone lubricant.
Dual density is the headline here. Rather than a single block of silicone, the SilexD uses a firm inner core wrapped in a softer outer layer, which is meant to mimic a more natural weight and give than a uniform toy. That construction is the main reason to consider it over a plain silicone plug.
The practical questions for a buyer are straightforward: is a 4 cm diameter the right step for you, does the suction base actually deliver on hands-free wear, and are you set up with the right lubricant and cleaning routine. The specification answers most of that before you buy.
The good and the bad
What works
- Dual density silicone gives a firmer core beneath a softer, more yielding surface
- Tapered tip is designed to ease insertion gradually
- Flared suction base doubles as a safe stop and allows hands-free wear
- Body-safe silicone with no batteries to charge or replace
- Part of a sized range, so you can move up or down
What to be aware of
- At 4 cm across it is a genuine medium, not a beginner's first plug
- Silicone body means only water-based lubricant is safe
- Suction base grip depends heavily on a smooth, clean, flat surface
- Soft silicone surface can attract lint and needs careful storage
Buy it if
Someone who has used a smaller starter plug comfortably and wants to progress to a fuller girth, and who likes the idea of a more realistic weighted feel from dual density silicone.
Skip it if
Complete beginners, who should start with a small plug of narrower girth and work up. Anyone committed to silicone lubricant should also look elsewhere, as it degrades silicone toys.
Design And Materials
The dual density SILEXPAN build is the defining feature. A firm inner core sits under a softer body-safe silicone outer layer, which gives the plug structure to hold its shape while presenting a gentler surface. In practice this means it should feel less rigid than a solid silicone plug of the same size, which is often more forgiving during wear.
Silicone is a sound choice of material: non-porous, body-safe and hard-wearing. The one trade-off worth knowing is that a soft silicone surface tends to pick up dust and lint, so it benefits from being stored in a pouch or box rather than loose in a drawer.
Size And Insertion
At 9.3 cm long with a 4 cm diameter, this is a true medium. The tapered tip is designed to guide insertion from a narrow point up to the fuller body, which makes the widest part easier to negotiate than a blunt shape would.
Even so, 4 cm of girth is a meaningful step. If your experience so far is with slim beginner plugs, this is an increase rather than a like-for-like swap, and plenty of lubricant and patience will matter. Those already comfortable at this size will find the length modest and manageable.
The Suction Base And Hands-Free Wear
The base is flared, which is the essential safety feature on any plug, and it also functions as a suction cup for hands-free use. That is a genuinely useful bonus, but suction is only as good as the surface it grips. A smooth, clean, non-porous surface such as tile or glass works; textured, dusty or fabric surfaces will not hold.
Treat the suction as a nice extra rather than the main reason to buy. The flared stop matters far more, and on that count the design is sound.
Care And Cleaning
There is no power or charging to think about, so it is ready whenever you are. Clean it before and after use with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner, and dry it thoroughly before storing.
Use a water-based lubricant generously. This is not optional advice with a plug of this girth, and it is also the only lubricant that is safe with silicone. Silicone lubricant can degrade the surface over time, and oil-based products are best avoided too.
How It Compares
Against a standard single-density silicone plug of the same dimensions, the SilexD's selling point is the softer surface over a firm core, which many people prefer for comfort during longer wear. If you simply want a firm, rigid feel, a cheaper solid plug would do the job.
Within its own range, the small and large versions let you choose your girth. Buying the medium makes most sense if you have a smaller plug already and know you are ready to move up.
The bottom line
The SilexD medium is a thoughtfully specified silicone plug, and the dual density construction is a real point of difference for anyone who finds solid silicone too unyielding. Recommended for those already comfortable at around a 4 cm girth who want a more natural feel, but keep water-based lubricant to hand and treat the suction base as a bonus rather than the headline.
Frequently asked questions
Is this plug suitable for beginners?
Not really. At 4 cm in diameter it is a genuine medium, so it suits someone who has used a smaller starter plug comfortably. Complete beginners should start with the small size in the range or another narrow plug and progress from there.
What lubricant should I use with it?
A water-based lubricant only. The plug is made from silicone, and silicone lubricant can damage silicone toys over time. Use a generous amount, which matters at this girth.
Does the suction base really work for hands-free use?
It can, but only on a smooth, clean, non-porous surface such as tile or glass. On textured, dusty or fabric surfaces it will not hold. The flared base is also there as a safety stop, which is its most important function.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash it with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after use, then dry it thoroughly. Because the soft silicone surface attracts lint, store it in a clean pouch or box rather than loose in a drawer.
Does it need batteries or charging?
No. It requires no power at all, so it is ready to use straight from cleaning with no charging or battery hunting involved.