XtoysToosh Heart Shaped Gold Butt Plug Review: Weighty Metal, Jewelled Base
Editor's opinion
This is a solid, non-porous metal plug with a decorative jewelled base and a substantial 148g heft. It suits people who enjoy a grounded sense of fullness and want the flexibility of temperature play, but at 4cm wide it is better described as an intermediate size than a genuine beginner's plug.
Metal butt plugs occupy a distinct niche. Where silicone is soft and forgiving, aluminium alloy is rigid, weighty and conducts temperature, which is precisely the point for some buyers and precisely the problem for others. The Toosh Heart Shaped Gold Butt Plug leans into that character with a polished body, a 148g heft and a jewelled heart base that doubles as a decorative flourish.
The things worth weighing before you buy are the width, the rigidity and the weight. At 4cm across this is a mid-range girth, and a hard metal body does not flex to accommodate you the way silicone does. That makes lubricant and a measured pace more important here than with softer toys.
The good and the bad
What works
- Non-porous aluminium alloy is easy to clean and hygienic
- Works with water-, silicone- and oil-based lubricants alike
- Conducts temperature for warm or cool play
- Weighted 148g body gives a grounded sense of fullness
- Wide, flat jewelled base keeps it secure and doubles as decoration
What to be aware of
- At 4cm wide it is not a true beginner's first plug
- Rigid metal body does not flex, so pace and lubricant matter
- The 148g weight will feel heavy for some and cold on first contact
- Metal can drop or clatter on hard surfaces if handled carelessly
Buy it if
People who already enjoy anal play and want the distinctive heft and temperature response of a metal plug, plus anyone who values a non-porous surface and full lubricant compatibility.
Skip it if
Complete beginners, who would be better served by a slimmer silicone plug with some give. If 4cm feels daunting, look for a tapered starter set in the 2.5 to 3cm range first.
Design and Materials
The body is aluminium alloy with a polished gold finish, tapering to a pointed tip and widening to a broad, flat base set with a red heart-shaped stone. Metal is rigid and non-porous, which means it will not absorb fluids or harbour bacteria the way porous materials can, and it takes a thorough clean easily.
The trade-off is that metal does not yield. Unlike silicone, which compresses slightly as it enters, this plug holds its shape entirely, so the 4cm widest point is the 4cm you actually take. The tapered tip helps ease that, but generous lubricant and an unhurried approach do the real work.
Size, Weight and Who It Suits
With 8.2cm insertable and a 4cm width, this sits in the middle of the size range rather than at the beginner end, despite what the page copy suggests. A first-time buyer would find 4cm of unyielding metal a lot to start with; someone who has used smaller plugs and wants to progress will find it a sensible next step.
The 148g weight is the defining feature. Once seated, that heft creates a constant, grounding sensation of fullness that fans of metal plugs specifically seek out. If you prefer something you can largely forget about, a lighter silicone plug will suit you better.
Temperature Play and Lubricant
Because it is metal, this plug conducts temperature. Resting it in warm or cool water for a few minutes before use, then drying it fully, adds a sensation that silicone simply cannot offer. Bear in mind the flip side: at room temperature metal can feel startlingly cool on first contact, so warming it is often worthwhile regardless.
The metal body also means every lubricant is fair game. Water-, silicone- and oil-based formulas are all compatible, which is a genuine advantage over silicone toys, where silicone lubricant is off the table.
Care and Comparison
Cleaning is straightforward: warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after use, then dry it fully before storing. The smooth, non-porous surface leaves nowhere for residue to hide. Store it somewhere it will not knock against other hard objects, as a polished finish can scuff.
Compared with a silicone plug of the same dimensions, this one is heavier, firmer and cooler to the touch, with the bonus of temperature play and full lubricant freedom. The choice comes down to what you want: the soft, flexible comfort of silicone, or the weighted, temperature-responsive character of metal.
The bottom line
The Toosh Heart Shaped Gold Butt Plug is a well-considered metal plug for someone who wants heft, a hygienic non-porous surface and the option of temperature play, wrapped in a decorative jewelled base. Just treat the beginner claim with caution: at 4cm and 148g of rigid metal, it rewards a little experience and plenty of lubricant.
Frequently asked questions
Is this plug suitable for complete beginners?
Not really. At 4cm wide and 148g in rigid metal, it suits people who have used smaller plugs before. A genuine beginner would be better starting with a slimmer, more flexible silicone plug and working up.
What lubricant can I use with it?
Because the body is aluminium alloy rather than silicone, you can use water-, silicone- or oil-based lubricant. Generous lubricant is especially important with a rigid metal plug.
How does temperature play work with a metal plug?
Rest the plug in warm or cool water for a few minutes, then dry it thoroughly before use. The metal holds the temperature briefly, adding a different sensation. Warming it also takes the edge off the cool feel of metal at room temperature.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash it with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner before and after use, then dry it fully. The non-porous surface cleans easily. Store it away from other hard objects so the polished finish does not scuff.
Will the wide base keep it safely in place?
Yes. The flat, heart-shaped base is broad enough to sit flush against the body, which prevents the plug from travelling and makes it easy to remove. The base is essential for safe use, so never use anal toys without one.