XtoysToosh Heart Shaped Silver Metal Butt Plug Review: Medium
Editor's opinion
This is a smooth aluminium alloy plug with a decorative heart-shaped jewelled base, sized medium at 3.4 cm wide. It suits anyone drawn to metal's weight and temperature play, and its non-porous surface takes any lubricant. The main caveats are that metal has no give and a 3.4 cm width is more than most absolute beginners want as a starting point.
Metal plugs occupy a particular niche. They swap the soft, forgiving feel of silicone for solid heft, a cool touch that can be warmed or chilled, and a surface that is about as easy to clean as anything in this category. The Toosh Heart Shaped plug adds a decorative flourish on top, with a jewelled heart set into the flared base so there is something to look at rather than a plain disc.
What a buyer should weigh here is not the sparkle but the physics. This is 86 grams of rigid alloy that is 3.4 cm across at its widest. That combination is exactly what draws some people to metal and exactly what makes others reach for something softer. Knowing which camp you fall into is most of the decision.
The good and the bad
What works
- Non-porous alloy works with water-, silicone- and oil-based lubricant alike
- Solid metal holds warmth or cold for genuine temperature play
- Smooth surface wipes clean quickly and easily
- Flared heart base keeps it safely in place and looks finished
- No batteries or charging to think about
What to be aware of
- Rigid metal has no give, so the 3.4 cm width feels more demanding than the same size in silicone
- At 86 grams the weight is noticeable and not to everyone's taste
- Described as beginner-friendly, but true first-timers may prefer something narrower and softer
- Cool metal can be a surprise unless you warm it first
Buy it if
People who already enjoy or are curious about metal plugs and temperature play, and who want a decorative jewelled base. It also suits anyone who wants total freedom over lubricant choice.
Skip it if
Complete newcomers to anal play, who would generally do better starting with a slim, flexible silicone plug that forgives a little. If you dislike weight or cold sensations, this is not the material for you.
Design and materials
The body is aluminium alloy with a silver-toned finish, tapering to a pointed tip and widening to the flared heart-shaped base that carries the red stone. The appeal of metal is its rigidity and weight: 86 grams gives a real sense of presence that fans of the material specifically seek out.
That same rigidity is the trade-off. Unlike silicone, metal does not flex or compress, so the stated 3.4 cm width is felt in full. It is worth being honest with yourself about that number rather than relying on the word medium alone. As with any jewelled base, the setting around the stone is a point to inspect on arrival and keep an eye on over time, since a decorative fitting is naturally a little less robust than a plain body.
Temperature play and use
Solid metal is a good conductor, which is why Toosh highlights temperature play. Resting the plug in warm water or briefly cooling it changes the sensation considerably, and it holds that temperature for a while. The sensible rule is to always test it against the inside of your wrist first, because metal can reach an uncomfortable extreme faster than you might expect.
Because metal has no give, generous lubrication matters more here than with a flexible toy, and the tapered tip is there to ease entry. The flared base is the safety feature that keeps everything controlled, and you should never use an anal toy that lacks one.
Lubricant and cleaning
This is where the material earns its keep. Aluminium alloy is non-porous, so unlike silicone toys it is happy with water-, silicone- or oil-based lubricant, and you are free to pick whatever you like best. The smooth surface also wipes clean easily with warm water and a mild soap.
Do take a little care around the jewelled setting when cleaning, drying it thoroughly so nothing collects around the stone. Store it somewhere it will not knock against harder objects that could scuff the finish.
How it compares
Against a soft silicone plug of the same nominal size, this feels quite different: heavier, firmer, cooler and less forgiving. Neither is better, they simply suit different preferences. If the idea of weight and temperature appeals, metal delivers something silicone cannot.
Within the metal category, the distinguishing feature here is the heart-shaped jewelled base, so this is aimed at buyers who want a decorative look as much as the practical benefits. If you want the metal experience without the ornament, a plainer jewelled or smooth-based plug covers the same ground.
The bottom line
The Toosh Heart Shaped plug is a well-judged pick if you already like metal, or want to try temperature play, and appreciate a decorative finish. The non-porous surface and any-lubricant freedom are genuine advantages. Just go in clear-eyed about the rigidity and the 3.4 cm width, and if you are entirely new to this, consider building up with something softer first.
Frequently asked questions
Is this a good first butt plug for a complete beginner?
It is described as suiting newcomers, but bear in mind that metal does not flex and 3.4 cm is a fair width to feel in full. Absolute first-timers often find a narrower, flexible silicone plug an easier starting point, then move to metal once comfortable.
What lubricant can I use with it?
Any type. Because aluminium alloy is non-porous, water-, silicone- and oil-based lubricants are all fine. Given the rigid metal body, use plenty.
How does temperature play work with it?
Rest the plug in warm water to warm it, or cool it briefly for the opposite effect. Solid metal holds the temperature for a while. Always test it against your skin first, as metal can heat or chill more sharply than expected.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash the smooth surface with warm water and a mild soap, taking extra care to dry around the jewelled setting. Store it where it will not be scratched by harder objects.
Does it need batteries or charging?
No. It is a solid, non-powered plug, so there is nothing to charge or replace.