XtoysLoving Joy 12 Inch Double Dildo Pink Review
Editor's opinion
This is a full-length, double-ended dildo in soft, flexible TPE, aimed at partner play and solo double penetration. It suits people who already enjoy a substantial size and are happy to give TPE the care it needs. Complete beginners and anyone wanting a low-maintenance material should look elsewhere.
A double-ended dildo has one job: to be usable at both tips so it can be shared between two people or curved for solo double play. The Loving Joy 12 Inch version approaches that with a soft TPE body, a realistic finish and a generous 30cm length, so there is room at each end with space left in the middle.
The things worth weighing before buying are size and material. At 30cm with a 10.5cm circumference this is a large toy, and TPE is a porous material that needs particular handling. Both are manageable, but they shape who this is genuinely right for.
The good and the bad
What works
- Double-ended design suits both sharing and solo double play
- Flexible body bends to follow your chosen angle
- Soft TPE with a realistic surface finish
- No batteries or charging to think about
- Long enough to keep both ends usable at once
What to be aware of
- At 30cm and 10.5cm around, too large for beginners
- TPE is porous, so it cannot be fully sterilised
- Water-based lubricant only, as oil and silicone degrade TPE
- Needs careful storage away from other toys
Buy it if
People who already enjoy a fuller, longer size and want a versatile double-ended toy for partner play or solo double penetration. Ideal if you are comfortable maintaining a porous material.
Skip it if
Newcomers to insertable toys, who would be better served by something shorter and slimmer in body-safe silicone. Anyone wanting a toy they can sterilise or use with any lubricant should also look at a silicone alternative.
Design and materials
The toy is moulded from soft TPE with a realistic shape at each tip, finished in pink. The key characteristic is flexibility: rather than staying rigid, the body bends, which is what makes a double-ended toy practical because it lets you curve it to the angle you want rather than fighting a straight shaft.
TPE is worth understanding before you buy. It is soft and pliable with a lifelike feel, but it is porous, meaning it cannot be fully sterilised and will not last indefinitely. That is the trade-off for the realistic, yielding texture; a silicone toy feels firmer but is non-porous and more forgiving to own.
How it is meant to be used
Being double-ended, it works two ways. Two people can each take an end, or a single user can curve it for double penetration. The full 30cm length is the point here: it keeps both tips usable while leaving space in between, so it is not simply a very long single dildo.
The flexible body helps in both cases, letting the toy follow movement instead of dictating a fixed position. That flexibility is more useful the larger the toy, and at this size it earns its keep.
Size and fit
With a total length of 30cm, a circumference of 10.5cm and a diameter of 3.5cm, this sits at the fuller, longer end of the range. The length is largely about reach for double use rather than depth, but the girth is genuinely substantial.
That girth is the deciding factor. If you already enjoy a size around 10.5cm around, this will feel familiar. If you do not, this is not the place to start, and a slimmer toy will be far more comfortable and enjoyable.
Cleaning and care
Wash before and after use with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner, then dry it fully before storing. Because TPE is porous, this matters more than with silicone: moisture and residue have somewhere to sit, so thorough drying is not optional.
Store it apart from other toys, ideally in its own bag or pouch, and keep it dry between uses. Stick to water-based lubricant, as oil and silicone-based lubricants break down TPE over time and shorten the toy's life.
How it compares
Against a silicone double-ender, this trades durability and easy cleaning for a softer, more realistic feel and, usually, a friendlier price point. Silicone is non-porous and can be sterilised; TPE cannot, so it is more of a personal, replace-in-time item.
Within double-enders, the defining choices are length, girth and firmness. This one leans long, thick and soft-flexible, which favours realistic partner play over precise control. If you want firmness for targeted stimulation, a firmer silicone model would suit better.
The bottom line
The Loving Joy 12 Inch Double Dildo is a sensible pick for experienced users who want a long, flexible, realistic-feeling double-ender and don't mind the upkeep TPE demands. Buy it if the substantial size appeals and you'll stick to water-based lubricant and careful storage; skip it if you're new to insertable toys or want the low-maintenance reassurance of silicone.
Frequently asked questions
Is this suitable for beginners?
Not really. At 30cm long with a 10.5cm circumference it is a large toy, better suited to those who already enjoy a substantial size. Newcomers would be more comfortable with something shorter and slimmer.
What lubricant should I use with it?
Use a water-based lubricant only. Oil-based and silicone-based lubricants degrade TPE over time, so avoid them to keep the toy in good condition.
Can it be shared between partners?
Yes, its double-ended design is made for sharing. Bear in mind, however, that TPE is porous and cannot be fully sterilised, so if you share it, using a condom over the relevant end is the safest approach.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash before and after use with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner, then dry it completely. Store it separately from other toys and keep it dry between uses, as porous TPE needs a little extra care.
Does it need batteries?
No. This is a non-powered dildo with no motor, so there is nothing to charge or replace.