XtoysLoving Joy Double Mini Dildo Review: Two Ends, Two Feels
Editor's opinion
This is a flexible, double-ended TPE dildo with a fuller 3.5cm end and a much slimmer 1.7cm end, so you can vary the feel or share between two people. It suits those who want choice from a single toy, though the porous TPE material and lack of a base are worth weighing before you buy.
The Loving Joy Double Mini Dildo sets out to solve a common dilemma: rather than owning separate toys for different moods or experience levels, it offers two contrasting ends in one piece. One head is fuller, the other noticeably slimmer, and both share the same flexible shaft.
What a buyer should weigh here is not just the versatility but the practicalities of a double-ender: the material it is made from, how the two very different sizes actually get used, and whether a design with no flared base fits how you like to play.
The good and the bad
What works
- Two genuinely different sizes in one toy, so you can vary the feel
- No batteries or charging to think about
- Flexible TPE body is easy to manoeuvre and position
- Slimmer 1.7cm end makes it approachable for those newer to insertable toys
What to be aware of
- TPE is porous, so it cannot be fully sterilised and needs replacing over time
- No flared base, which limits it for anal use
- At 28cm it needs a fair amount of space and a firm grip to handle
- TPE rules out silicone lubricant
Buy it if
Anyone who wants flexibility from a single toy, whether that is switching between a fuller and a slimmer sensation solo, or sharing the two ends between partners. The slim end also makes it a gentle option for those still finding their preferences.
Skip it if
Those who want a toy for anal play should look elsewhere, as there is no flared base to keep it safe. If you want a material you can sterilise and keep indefinitely, a body-safe silicone dildo is the better long-term buy.
Design And The Two Heads
The appeal here is choice. The larger head offers 13.5cm insertable, 3.5cm wide with a 10cm circumference, which is a substantial, full sensation. The smaller head is 13cm insertable but just 1.7cm wide with a 6cm circumference, a very slender option by comparison.
That gap between the two ends is large, which is the point: it lets one toy cover moods and experience levels that would usually mean two purchases. Used as a true double-ender between two people, though, bear in mind that each partner gets a markedly different size, so it may suit some pairings better than others.
Material And What It Means
TPE is soft, flexible and gives that realistic, lifelike feel, and it tends to be more affordable than silicone. The trade-off is that TPE is porous. That means it cannot be fully sterilised, it will not last indefinitely, and it should be treated as a toy to replace periodically rather than keep for years.
It also matters for lubricant. Pair TPE only with a water-based lubricant, and use a generous amount given the material. Silicone lubricant can degrade the surface and should be avoided.
Care And Cleaning
Wash before and after every use with warm water and a suitable toy cleaner, paying attention to both ends and the whole length. Because TPE is porous, thorough drying and careful storage matter more than they would with silicone.
If you plan to share the toy between partners, a condom over the end in use is a sensible precaution given that TPE cannot be sterilised. Store it away from other toys, as TPE can react with certain materials over time.
How It Compares
Against a single-ended dildo, the draw is obvious: you get two very different sizes in one piece. Against a firmer, fixed-shape toy, the flexible TPE shaft is easier to angle and hold but offers less rigidity if you want firm control.
Compared with a silicone double-ender, this is the more budget-friendly, softer-feeling option, but it asks more of you on care and does not last as long. The absence of a flared base is the other key difference to note, keeping this a vaginal-play toy.
The bottom line
The Loving Joy Double Mini Dildo is a sensible, versatile pick if you value having two contrasting sizes in one flexible toy and are comfortable with TPE's care routine. Just go in knowing that the porous material needs replacing over time and that the lack of a base keeps it firmly a vaginal-play toy rather than an all-rounder.
Frequently asked questions
Can this be used for anal play?
It is not designed for it. The toy has no flared base, and a base is essential for anal safety to prevent anything being drawn in too far. For anal use, choose a toy with a clearly flared base.
What lubricant should I use with it?
Use a water-based lubricant, and apply a generous amount, as TPE benefits from plenty. Avoid silicone lubricant, which can damage the TPE surface.
Can I share it with a partner?
Yes, that is part of the double-ended design, though the two ends are quite different in size. Because TPE is porous and cannot be sterilised, using a condom on the end in use is a sensible precaution when sharing.
How long will a TPE toy like this last?
TPE is porous, so it will not last indefinitely and should be treated as a toy to replace periodically. Careful cleaning, drying and storage will help, but it will not have the lifespan of a silicone toy.
Is the slimmer end suitable for beginners?
At just 1.7cm wide, the smaller head is notably slender and makes a gentle starting point. The larger 3.5cm end is considerably fuller, so having both in one toy lets you build up at your own pace.