XtoysLoving Joy Double Mini Dildo Purple Review: Two Fits in One
Editor's opinion
The Loving Joy Double Mini Dildo offers a genuinely useful idea: one broader head and one slimmer head, so you can choose your fit or share between partners. It is a practical, no-fuss piece, but being TPE it is porous and needs disciplined cleaning and water-based lubricant only.
Double-enders come in a few flavours, and this one is built around choice rather than the classic two-people-at-once premise. Loving Joy has given each end a distinctly different head so that a single toy covers two size preferences, which is a sensible answer to the common problem of buying two products to find your fit.
What a buyer should weigh here is the material. TPE keeps the price down and gives a soft, realistic feel, but it is porous, which changes how you clean it, what lubricant you can use, and how long it will last. Get that right and this is a flexible, low-maintenance toy.
The good and the bad
What works
- Two different head sizes in one toy, so you can move between a fuller and a slimmer fit
- No batteries or charging, ready whenever you are
- Soft, flexible TPE with a realistic shape
- Long 28cm body gives plenty to hold and control
- Works for solo use or sharing between partners
What to be aware of
- TPE is porous, so it cannot be fully sterilised and needs thorough cleaning every time
- Silicone lubricant is off the table; water-based only
- The larger head at 3.5cm wide and 10cm circumference is a fair size to work up to
Buy it if
Anyone who wants one toy that covers two size preferences, whether that is easing between a slim and a fuller fit solo, or sharing with a partner. A good pick if you would rather not charge or feed batteries.
Skip it if
If you want a toy you can boil or bleach for the strictest hygiene, or one you can pair with silicone lubricant, look to a body-safe silicone dildo instead. Complete beginners may find the larger 3.5cm end more than they want to start with.
Two Ends, Two Sizes
The design's whole point is versatility. The larger head is 13.5cm insertable with a 3.5cm width and 10cm circumference, while the slimmer end is 13cm insertable at 1.7cm width and 6cm circumference. That is a meaningful gap between the two, so this genuinely functions as two size options rather than a token difference.
At 28cm overall there is a lot of shaft between the heads, which gives you something substantial to grip and steer. The trade-off is that a good chunk of the length is handle rather than insertable, so do not read the total figure as usable depth.
Material And Feel
TPE is soft, flexible and has a realistic feel, and it keeps the price accessible. The important caveat is that it is porous, meaning tiny surface pores can harbour bacteria that cannot be scrubbed out completely. That has practical consequences: it should not be shared without a fresh condom between partners or uses, and it will not last indefinitely.
The porosity also dictates lubricant. Stick to a water-based product, because silicone lubricant can degrade a TPE surface over time and oil-based options are best avoided too.
Care And Cleaning
Wash it with warm water and a proper toy cleaner before and after every use, paying attention to the textured, realistic detailing where residue can sit. Let it dry fully before storing, ideally somewhere it will not press against other toys, as TPE can react with certain materials.
Because it cannot be sterilised the way silicone can, treat cleaning as non-negotiable rather than optional. Realistically, a porous toy is a consumable that you replace periodically rather than a lifetime purchase.
How It Compares
Against a typical single-size dildo, the appeal here is obvious: you get two fits without buying two toys. Against a curved or ridged double-ender aimed at two-person use, this one is more about size choice and simple, straightforward shape.
The honest comparison point is material. A body-safe silicone dildo costs more but is non-porous, boilable and works for the strictest hygiene. If price and a soft realistic feel matter most, TPE earns its place; if longevity and cleaning peace of mind top your list, silicone is the upgrade to consider.
The bottom line
The Loving Joy Double Mini Dildo is a clever, practical way to have two size options in one affordable, no-charging toy, and the soft TPE gives a realistic feel. Just go in knowing the material is porous: clean it thoroughly, use water-based lubricant only, cover it for shared use, and accept it as a replaceable item rather than a forever piece.
Frequently asked questions
Can I use any lubricant with this toy?
Use a water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lubricants can degrade the TPE surface over time, and oil-based products are generally best avoided with this kind of material.
Is it safe to share between partners?
Because TPE is porous and cannot be fully sterilised, use a fresh condom over the end when passing it between people, or between different types of use, and clean it thoroughly in between.
How much of the 28cm length actually goes in?
The total length is 28cm, but that includes the shaft you hold. The larger head gives about 13.5cm insertable and the slimmer head about 13cm, so treat those figures as the usable depth rather than the full length.
Is this suitable for a complete beginner?
The slimmer end, at 1.7cm wide with a 6cm circumference, is approachable for someone new. The larger end at 3.5cm wide and 10cm circumference is more substantial, so beginners can start with the slim side and build up.
How do I clean and store it?
Wash with warm water and a toy cleaner before and after each use, dry it fully, and store it somewhere it will not press against other toys. Consistent cleaning matters more than usual because the material is porous.